• RE: Denied Autism Assessment

    Hi inula,

    Thank you for taking the time to reply. I definitely have imposter syndrome but I also think why am I so obsessed about proving I have ASD? If I was neruotypical I wouldn't be searching. Like I said before I actually don't mind if I have autism…

  • RE: Advice Please.

    Honestly, you could be describing me right now. I’m a little older (37) and have got trapped in a major rut for the second time in my life now–the first after I graduated from university and was too burned out to work (pre-diagnosis), this second time…

  • RE: Wedding Anxieties

    Congratulations on the wedding.

    I think preparations for big events like this are stressful for anyone and far worse if you are autistic.  It's normal to be nervous, but you are faced with a rather large burden on the executive and social function.  No…

  • Struggling with asd and mental health

    I am struggling so much with my asd and my mental health. Together they are unbearable. One plays against the other and I'm caught in the middle of the storm. That's what it feels like just being constantly thrown around in this blizzard of darkness.…

  • RE: Not fitting in at work- feeling isolated

    I'm sorry you are having such a tough time.

    Can you have a chat to your manager about all this? It's hard to say what your colleagues motives are: did they just not realise the stress they were putting you under to do their tests or did they take…

  • RE: How to approach undiagnosed partner with Asperger traits

    You might not accept this  - but 'normal' people lie all the time - about everything - mostly little things  for status reasons - and then seem to just jabber about nothing - it's almost like their way of breathing.  Smiley   

    It's UNBELIEVABLY difficult…

  • RE: Why do so many fitness people eat so much sweet foods?

    Most people are addicted to food and eat primarily for pleasure rather than hunger. People who get into fitness use it as an excuse to consume more sugary stuff because they tell themselves they burned calories (even though it's impossible to exercise…

  • If you’re married, what was your wedding day like?

    I’m interested in the perspectives of both ASD and NTs who married ASDs.

    I’m engaged and we had planned our wedding for the start of this year but decided to postpone 6 weeks before because I was too poorly (vestibular migraine) and the church and…

  • RE: The deeply ingrained idea of normality

    Former Member

    Reading your post reminds me of myself. Being currently undiagnosed, yet seeking one, I'm wavering and at a stage of questioning if I really am on the spectrum or just being sensitive... My parents, who are both introverts (suspect dad is…

  • RE: Walking away

    Hi Kate. There really isn't enough help at school and in general for people with autism I think. I don't go now but my sister's daughter does and she's struggling but can't get any help either. Things really need to change with this. School and learning…