Published on 12, July, 2020
I was just talking to this lovely nurse and was explaining that going outside makes me anxious because of the people and unfamiliar surroundings and she asked me what I like most about my home and what makes it safe for me. And I thought that would be interesting to ask here as well, if you're comfortable to say of course :)
I like a lot of things about my home. All my favourite possessions are there. It's peaceful and I know I'm always comfortable and happy there. And probably the best thing is it's in the countryside.
Not a lot I know but they are big things for me.
I have two now. . Both boys.
I used to really relate to that fairy tale when I was little. I believed I would be able to pass that test and feel the pea. Now I know why!
I couldn't tolerate an electric blanket as a child, as I could feel all the wires. I couldn't even tolerate flannelette sheets, due to the 'bobbles' on the fabric.
If you do decide to get one it is peak time and highest prices currently. I just checked on Amazon and the one I have is currently 4 times the price I paid during the summer. Not much help for this winter but unsurprisingly the cheapest time to buy one is generally during a heatwave.
Thanks. I’m feeling very tempted to get one. Would definitely need a fleece cover - I’m very sensitive to any kind of discomfort (like that story: ‘the princess and the pea’ ).
I love the slower pace of life in Cornwall as well as the coast.
Awh sounds a lovely happy environment for you and your family Billy.
I got one a few years ago and I love it. I wouldn't be without it now.
Modern ones have timers, so that they will switch off automatically after the length of time you set it for. There is no need to turn it off when you get into bed. I usually switch mine on for one hour before bed and then another hour once I get into bed.
If you are sensitive to textures, as many autistic people are, you might want to opt for one with a removable fleece cover attached. That way you won't be able to feel the hard wires quite as much through the blanket.
Awh sounds lovely I hope it's a happy and safe place for you.
How many cats have you got? :)
The simply fact it is familiar, comfortable and my cats are there.
Im glad you have that too Kate. It is so hard to find, I never dreamt I would be able to be myself with someone. Its hard to remember to count our blessings sometimes but it always helps our mental health when we do
I’m glad this resonates with you. I worry that my wording doesn’t lend itself to others seeing what I do sometimes, so it is nice when someone does
I agree and I think I talk about collections, both physical and thought based (e.g memories), as representations of myself. I love to collect things and display them, as you would in a cabinet and home is definitely like that for me, or perhaps I’m learning that I’m just really interested in cabinets…
Roy said:I was thinking of doing a post for peoples input on what would make an ideal retreat. I know we can’t be everything to everyone, but input would be good I think.
Please do Roy.
That would make an interesting thread.
All the very best to you and your wife for this great project.
Kate Kestrel said:I always think it’s amazing that old houses even had fireplaces in the bedrooms
My last house had fireplaces in the bedrooms - a Victorian house.
I miss it actually. I have a lovely home now but that one was so full of character.
I think the Victorians built the most characterful houses.
Yep, that's exactly how it was.
I hate loud music + it was loud music until early hours most nights, unfortunately.
Yes, it was a lucky unlucky thing to happen.
I definitely am thank you Luna.
It was 30 years ago.
I did have a very nasty leg injury though.
I live in a house now but that little flat was very nice thanks x
That's lovely Roy. I love Cornwall really beautiful place. Best of luck to you and your wife for the future I hope you're both be really happy there x
Hi, go for it! I lived in my house for 30 years and was terrified of moving. I knew I had to do it as the house was too big and hard to manage. I can happily say that although it was stressful at the time I’ve never looked back. I’ve been in my little house for just over 2 years and I love it! Best thing I did.
Beautiful. I love the squirrel x
I can relate - we’re a similar age and it does concentrate the mind! Tintagel is wonderful isn’t it - really spectacular. We’ve wanted to move to Cornwall for years but my son has another favourite place that he prefers and I think we might choose his option as he’s our priority above all else really. The other option is lovely too - but I really do feel the pull of Cornwall as it’s so special. I find the ocean so absorbing and it’s great for mental health.