Hello I am having some thoughts of wanting to harm someone in which I do not really mean to because I am sick and tired of everyone not understanding other people's issues like anger issues and other problems and when they say that the world is as as it is when the world should change for the better and I am not asking people or the world to be perfect but I just want no more violence, war, people telling others what to do with their own lives and bodies, no more negatives, no more pain and suffering and I think some more too I would not like in this world anymore like birth defects or disabilities sorry to say this as I do not want to end up offending anybody but I just wish that some people were not born with disabilities because it would be nice if everyone would be more independent and be able to do more things for themselves. I really need help please as it is getting out of control.
Hi Sholay, it sounds like maybe your mum is struggling to adapt to you being an adult and responsible for your own decisions. I think this is something everyone goes through in their late teens/early twenties where they want to make all their own decisions but the parents are still trying to make decisions for them. I’m sure your mum is only doing that because she cares about you and doesn’t want you to make bad decisions and suffer the consequences of those, she’s just being protective. Hopefully in time though she will come to accept that you are now an adult and responsible for making your own choices, I’m sure she’ll get there in the end. It’s hard though, as a mum, just because your child is an adult doesn’t mean you stop wanting to look after them and protect them like you always have :-)