Does driving overstimulate you?

Hi all, 

Just wondering about peoples thoughts on this! 

I've been finding that driving can often be a bit overstimulating for me. I overall enjoy it, the freedom it gives me is second to none, plus its a good place to scream at my loudest when I need to because no one can hear on the motorway. But i've found that just sheer volume of visual information is sometimes a bit much. Especially when it comes to the constant things ongoing in the mirrors that I can sometimes get distracted by when i need to focus on what's in front of me. This is especially during the dark, headlights in mirrors etc are so distracting and uncomfortable for me. 

Obviously driving for long times is tiring for anyone, but even my normal commute home (35-45mins) at the end of the day really just takes out what little energy I have left after work. Any one else feel like this? 

Thanks,

Euan.

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    its simple when you understand you give way to the right, but then you have idiots that stop on smaller roundabouts for people on the left that should be giving way to them instead.

    then you have people who have that lack of left and right who instead come straight out instead of giving way to the right and plough right in the side of someone because they didnt give way. this happens alot and is how alot of people on motorbikes get run over, because people in cars just pull out at a roundabout when a bikes coming round and they expect the bike to somehow be able to magically break when its bent over on a corner? ... bikes cant do that.... once your on a corner on a bike your committed and if you break you crash... car drivers dont understand this and then pull out expecting the 2 wheel thing to defy gravity and logic and break when its angled over lol

  • no.... but my response might be worse because instead of being overstimulated i instead find i probably zone out or lose concentration instead lol

    think on other things, mind gets distracted, voila im somehow at my destination having blotted from my memory parts of the journey 

  • Ooh good shout with the glasses

    I've been tempted to get some just for my phone and computer usage because my eyes sting and feel tired a lot and the light from devices really upsets them at times :-/ 

    I didn't know you could use them for driving to but that makes much more sense :) 

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  • My Dad bought a Land Rover in 1975, at Elsmere Port. Heading by ferry from Liverpool to Belfast, before bringing it here. My Great Uncle was a Car Dealer from the Wirral. 

  • Today, I took my Artist friend to Belfast, and back, I parked at Little Donegal Street. Then we went to the Art Gallery, then the Oh Yeah! Music Centre, and got a taxi back to where I parked; my mate has a bad knee.

    On the way back, I ended up blocking a junction where the light was green. Thank God I was able to switch lane, then get back on the lane towards the M2. First real experience of Rush Hour traffic in the city. 

  • Driving calms me, I find it relaxing 

  • Hello,

    that is a very kind offer but sadly I live in the Midlands. I agree, the SD1 was amazing especially the V8 model. She was called Lucy long before I rescued her from a local field.

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  • I get fatigued to the point of drowsiness in about 20 minutes, 10 if the sun is shining, if anything too-taxing happens I completely lose the ability to think..

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    Thanks. The SD1 is an awesome car, it's on my list of projects to do but so far I haven't got round to it. I need a new window for it as a tree branch went through it. My mum keeps trying to get me to sell it but so far I still intend to do it at some point.

  • Hello,

    I have owned Lucy for thirteen years now. I check all the fluid levels frequently and carry oil and spares. I am taking Lucy to have some much needed welding repairs as I cannot weld.

    Your SD1 project sounds fun as I remember them well.  

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    I always make sure I have my stereo on blasting out some great tunes and that helps me stay calm.

  • Planning is always a good idea. If you're unsure of parking and road sizes then I suggest checking Google maps out before so you know the general layout. I do this a lot and it takes a lot of anxiety away for me.

  • Some of the car lights out there are crazy! Those harsh blue/white ones. Even to the less light sensitive they must be so dazzling. My car has soft warm/orange lights so I'm glad I'm not inflicting the same. 

  • Yes - I always park a bit out of town for most bigger places we visit. We walk in though (I like your idea of having a bike in the boot - but generally there’s 3 of us and one of us can’t ride a bike so that’s not something we can do). Also this way we hardly ever pay to park, and we don’t have to worry about watching the time for car parks either. I much prefer doing this and we have some interesting walks going into towns too. Much better! 

  • Not sure I'd call it overstimulation. I'm hypervigilent so always tense, on a long journey that's exhausting. I'm okay night or day but then I've been driving a long time. I find the worst thing is when you're in an unfamiliar city, with fast four lane roads etc., and everyone else knows exactly where they're going, so they're flying round with their foot to the floor, and you're there scrabbling to try to work out where to go and they're up your exhaust pipe. I also find I can't have music or radio on, with watching everything and seeing a hundred things at once, and always being ready to take evasive action, the distraction is too much. (by evasive action I mean, such as, an oncoming car came round a blind corner overtaking the other day and almost caused a head-on, I'm always ready for that kind of thing on the local country roads). I don't find driving too pleasant in the main.Doesn't help when you have an underpowered car! We just went down to 20mph zones here, and it has massively added to journey times. 20mph is a crawl and you can see that everyone's frustrated.

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    I am looking forward to a trip to North Wales soon but will plan the route and take breaks

    I hope you enjoy your trip! Smiley Good idea planning. I always plan well in advance of taking a long trip, always make sure I do the trye pressure, take spare oil, water, everything I might need. Will you be taking your Landrover? I'm hoping to go to Scotland soon and I'll be taking my Senator, if I can get the right boot spoiler for it.

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    I am looking forward to a trip to North Wales soon but will plan the route and take breaks.