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Unfortunately yes, I saw the OP has editted multiple of their replies after the fact and this probably set it off. It's been a really sad and confusing way (I don't know if they misintrepretted the spam catch for someone trying to silence them) for this thread to end up tbh because I'm pretty sure everyone in here really felt for them and just wanted to help the OP.

do you think he fell fowl of the stupid automated span filter?

Dude we have a stupid robot on this website that occasionally blocks our posts and calls them spam. If it did that to you don't take offence. It's defective and should be scraped. I'm sure no one, no one human here, thinks you are spamming.

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thank you for being evil and reporting me as a spammer to NAS when all I wanted to ask for advice and you said I am not allwoed advice. I apologise and you call me spammer. You are horrible.

No one reported you that I'm aware of, you need to beware making false allegations. You are pretending to be a victim of behavior which hasn't happened to you and are using it to emotionally beat the members here over the head with it. Kindly stop. It's not our fault you didn't like the perfectly sensible and supportive advice we gave you.

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Please be on the look out this new member is having a bizarre reaction, and clearly is in need of something we the rest of the forum cannot give without engaging in somekind of emotional selfharm.

You report me as spammer after i apologise for offending you by asking advice. I did not know that wasnt allowed here. I do not understand your behaviour

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I will delete my post. Sorry I offended everyone

Who did you offend?

Well that is a really confusing and non sequitur response to our conversation.

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Deleted as I am not allowed to ask for advice on here. Sorry I didnt know this.

Also everyone here gave you perfectly kind and sensible advice, you just didn't seem to like any of it. That isn't our fault.

I will delete my post. Sorry I offended everyone

Then you need to get someone else who can. And pace yourself so you don't burnout (and the SS want you to burnout and give in).

I don't know what else you want from me honestly I can only advise you how to fight. But it's you on the frontline, I cannot fight the battle for you.

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You have to raise it again. And make a formal complaint that it was never followed up the first time around.

The SS think they can get away with this because they are ableist that is to say they assume you are too st*pid and weak willed to stand up for yourself. And they rely on the fact that disabled people are often medically gaslit so you will question your own validity and let them take advantage of you.

This is not a problem other minority groups have, because LGBTQ and ethnic minorities don't accept the lie that their human rights to not be discriminated against have limitations. The social services wouldn't dare pull this on a gay or Indian couple because of how it would look. They are relying on you not kicking up a big fuss about it so they can get away with trying to wear you down until you do exactly what they say regardless of whether it is in your best interests.

Shout it far and wide, log the complaint with anyone and everyone who will listen and then after you have told all the official parties put it online in social media, tag your local politician if your letter private to them is ignored. Take it to your local press even if you don't think they will be immediately interested.

The social services are also relying on you having communications problems so you won't cause a scene, if you can't talk to these people yurself get your partner to relay all the information to the appropriate people on your behalf, get friends and family if you can to also be ringing in to make complaints about the way you are being mistreated. They cannot all be ignored.

You won't protect or win your rights by going quietly into the night.

I did try this and the police just sent it back to the council saying I have raised a complaint, can they look at it. The council never did.

That is criminal you should report them as an org and more specifically the person who said that to you to the 101 police line.

No it is not allowed, discrimination is never legal. Nobody is above the law not even social services, there is protocol they must follow. Otherwise some raging racist at SS could claim "black people are inherently violent" and remove their kids without just cause. They only try to get away with it because they hope you think it is allowed.

Too many busybodies, employed by the State, in this country; in general.

Authority no longer comes with responsibility. 

Sorry I cant folllw all of this but I do understand point 1. I havent gotten confused. support worker is related to adult social services who said no. the social services who are demanding i have a psychological is childrens social services. they said they only need it to "know how to communicate" with me - even though the NHS Trust has already told them and had several meetings telling them.

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Hi,

I'll try and make it laid out simply but I don't know enough about easy read to be perfect:)

I think you need to get your advocate to engage more for you. It feels like there is more than one thing going on here and maybe Social Services poor communication is leaving you confused:

1) You say you don't want anything from them but also that you need a support worker to help you to communicate, it feels part of this is them pushing you through their process to get a support worker. 

2) There is a process ongoing with regards to your children, triggered by the autism diagnosis. 

I agree with many other posters, this is  discrimination and needs recording, in writing if that is the only way it can be do. You need a table with:

a) Who said it 

b) When it was said

c) What was said

There are charities that should be able to sign post you were to take this element next. For example you can call the drc https://www.drc.org.uk/contact_us.aspx for advice. 

I'm also tagging a load of mods to see what legal advice they can find relevant to your case on the NAS site Rosie ModChloe ModRoss-ModKerri-Mod