What are your experiences with dating and do you find it difficult to maintain a relationship? I find communication hard sometimes and can come across cold.
I have got the opposite thing.
I also get attached really fast.
I become overwhelmed. And it gets too much.
I can only think about the person and cannot think about anything else.
I dont get attached fast I am the opposite but for some reason who ever I date gets attached quickly.
First date 17 years ago. Hugged a cactus. Permanently asexual.
I don't do dating. I meet someone by chance, or I don't meet them at all. It needs to happen naturally.
Which is a bit of a problem, as I don't understand flirtation signals. I've missed some opportunities because of this.
Finally, I've never been successful in sustaining a relationship. I don't manage cohabitation very well... and I get separation anxiety!
I have to say that I've never felt entirely comfortable - entirely 'right' psychologically - when I've been in a relationship. In part it could be because my guard is down, and I lay myself open with my emotional vulnerabilities. Meltdowns, breakdowns, mood disorders, suicide attempts... they've all been connected with relationships.
I guess I'm just better off alone! Certainly, I'm more psychologically stable.
I can relate with you on the last part. I think where we are such individual people and our thought process is so much more everything just seems to affect us that much more it does make it more difficiult me personally the thought of living with someone scares me. That being said my cousin has asperges and he is married and got children and seemingly manages quite well. It really does depend on the individual but also is down to us to make sure we choose the right person when i say that i mean someone that we can open up to and connect without any fears.