Published on 12, July, 2020
What are your experiences with dating and do you find it difficult to maintain a relationship? I find communication hard sometimes and can come across cold.
Off the back of this I was thinking did anyone have any interesting Valentine's?
I sent one but not in a romantic sense, one was a big bunch of flowers to my brother-in-laws sister who split up with her now ex at new year and the last few times I've seen her she was really down so it was to cheer her up. I sent them anonomously and it had the desired effect, she was so happy, posted in on Facebook saying how lucky she was, my brother-in-law was talking about it with my sister and he said it's pretty much the first time she's smiled since she was dumped. No one connected will ever know I sent them to her which makes me even happier, I don't like being the centre of attention.
I received two cards and I have no idea who either of them was from. One came in the normal post and the other was in the internal mail at the location where my work is, which is a secure site but has around 1,200 people on site daily and can peak at over 6,000 so that doesn't really narrow it down that much.
So in the end none of that gets me any further along in finding Miss Right, back to Tinder in a few weeks to see if I can get some successful dates!
Hopefully one of more of you had some success?
Note quite.... NEWS FLASH! - just been told from my OH that he wants a divorce!
Oh no! That's awful. I didn't know you were in a relationship.
All I can say is that's sad, I hope you find a way to feel happy.
UNREASONABLE behaviour - i.e. being ASD
Sorry to hear that Mute. Was it totally out of the blue or have things been rocky for a while?