Good morning and welcome to the forum.

Slightly off topic....this is long

This what happened in 2020 before COVID was declared:

Used to have a meeting before started at the library where used to volunteer (now gone to pot); this unfortunate day it…

Thank you for your message - it's much appreciated.  I had a case that was going to Tribunal a few months ago and used that as a basis for asking my Employer if they would let me go on Early Release but they wouldn't do it because I would cost them…

Being on the spectrum I knew I was also OCD and ADHD, but these haven't really concerned me much until now.  Focusing on tasks during the day is difficult, I have a burning need to check emails and phone for messages all the time, though if there is…

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MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!! hope its a fabulous year for you!

Oww hope you are better now?  ow no so why cant camhs see you i know you will be 18 but isnt there like a follow on place for adults?

Oww i know this is easier said then done…

Outside of work I'm generally quite chilled as long as I get my space when I need it.

I don't really socialise as I'm highly cynical about people and have been burned too many times to trust most people by default.

I used to be more social…

Hi Gilly.  I don't think you need to worry too much about bothering your husband with your woes.  You are obviously a caring and considerate soul based on what you have written above.  He may actually like the distraction of thinking about your problems…

I did a lot of research and soul searching before I braved joining here and dipping my toe in this online water.

like you said earlier, the reading and researching led to a holy crap, slap me with a brick realisation and things clicked for me and everything…

Thanks for the comments recombinantsocks (I had a knickname of "socks" at my first college as it was 80's and everyone was suddenly wearing bright flourescent oranges and lime greens, so instead of wearing my usual all black, I added flourescent socks…

BLM has NOTHING to do with skin colour or black lives - it's a well funded Marxist political group working to divide & conquer to overthrow governments.      While they are burning and destroying everything to do with a country's culture and history…