• I wish too sit on the fence as for instance if the money was ridiculous you say 1 million pound a weeks you could sit it out then go and do some good with the returns whereas if it was just above average mental health all day long

  • Thank you for your response. 
    I have only been there a month after trying to take a leap in my career and I honestly really wish I didn't.
    It's not that I wouldn't earn any money if I went back to a similar role - it just means that I wouldn't be as financially 'free' if you like 

  • I voted money over mental health, not because I think that’s the right choice, but that’s what I currently do. I’m in a job that I’m unhappy with and causes endless amounts of stress and anxiety, but I the stress of not having an income would literally send me over the edge. 
    I know if I want change, I need to make it happen. Whether through self help and asking changes at work such as reasonable adjustments, or looking for a new job all together. 

    it’s a horrible world that we have to let out mental health get affected for the sake of earning money just to have a roof over our head and food.. I just hope you can find a job which you’ll enjoy and thrive in. You deserve to be happy and feel fulfilled in your job

  • Yes I agree - I just always put a lot of pressure on myself as I hate letting people down

  • I think if I felt that way I'd probably not be able to stick it out long enough to earn what I need to make a living, so it's sort of a lose-lose.

    It doesn't have to be your absolute dream job but if you're struggling that badly I think you may have to consider if it's worth it in its current state. 

  • Thank you for your input.
    I am seriously struggling with my new job (been there a month) and I am going into work sobbing and feeling sick with anxiety every day but like you say... I need the money and simply cannot work out what is the best thing for me and my future.

  • Mental health. I say that as someone who does need the money (as we all do).

    If I really don't like the job, I won't be able to physically do it.