Hi! I am looking for girlfriend from Netherlands

Hi Mikko, and welcome to the forum.

Just a note that it is against the rules of the community to post identifying information about yourself like your full name, this is to protect the privacy of the users. This is in the community rules here:

https://community.autism.org.uk/p/rules

• This Community forum is public, so do not post personal or identifying details. This includes, but is not limited to, full names, addresses, contact details, social media, or photographs of yourself.  

Therefore I have removed your full name from the post and left just your first name.

Best wishes,
Ross - mod

This post feels wrong. Doesn't belong here. but on a dating site and makes me feel vulnerable.

I've noticed that this is becoming a dating site. What do you think?

Uhane said:

unfettered expressions of

misogyny

Uhane said:

Being female does not feel safe here right now.

That has actually been thrivingly present since I joined 2 years ago and if you read back over old threads, for years.

Be safe and well U.

Thank you for the kind words. In touch with two people on here and one other person who were talk on Facebook (asked for my permission first); think I won't post here and only accept friend requests. 

If so, it is a dangerous move unless the mods can guarantee users' safety from possible predation, PTSD triggers and abuse.

This is supposed to be a safe place.

Being female does not feel safe here right now.

No discussions feel safe.

Some of us are minors.

Some of us are triggered.

Some of us are vulnerable.

There has crept in, of late, unfettered expressions of

misogyny and potentially predatory overtures, both overt and implied.

Not much Razzes me but if it persists I will have to leave.

I am not even going to lurk but will chat happily on PM only.

I'll check back next Saturday to see if it feels safe again.

Find me on PM please, for now. I am not closing my account. I am taking friend requests.

I love you all deeply,

I have spoken.

If so, it is a dangerous move unless the mods can guarantee users' safety from possible predation, PTSD triggers and abuse.

This is supposed to be a safe place.

Being female does not feel safe here right now.

No discussions feel safe.

Some of us are minors.

Some of us are triggered.

Some of us are vulnerable.

There has crept in, of late, unfettered expressions of

misogyny and potentially predatory overtures, both overt and implied.

Not much Razzes me but if it persists I will have to leave.

I am not even going to lurk but will chat happily on PM only.

I'll check back next Saturday to see if it feels safe again.

Find me on PM please, for now. I am not closing my account. I am taking friend requests.

I love you all deeply,

I have spoken.

Uhane said:

unfettered expressions of

misogyny

Uhane said:

Being female does not feel safe here right now.

That has actually been thrivingly present since I joined 2 years ago and if you read back over old threads, for years.

Be safe and well U.

Thank you for the kind words. In touch with two people on here and one other person who were talk on Facebook (asked for my permission first); think I won't post here and only accept friend requests.