Hi! I am looking for girlfriend from Netherlands

Yeah, its very nefarious. Please somebody delete this thread, its giving me panic attax

Sporadic Sparkly said:

Even though their comments may not have seemed amusing to you, I don't think they had meant any harm.

I agree

I would like to offer you some reassurance Vardaguyn. I believe the person who commented on the 'Fuming' post that you have referred to was trying to be amusing in an attempt to make you laugh. Even though their comments may not have seemed amusing to you, I don't think they had meant any harm.

I believe the OP may be machine made

Please look elsewhere.

Uhane said:

unfettered expressions of

misogyny

Uhane said:

Being female does not feel safe here right now.

That has actually been thrivingly present since I joined 2 years ago and if you read back over old threads, for years.

Be safe and well U.

I'd posted something yesterday under fuming lack of communication. 

Had a similar post to this. Person replied with a song title Would You like Me to fly by and sting them for You ?Us Devil Hornets know how to ruin a good barbecue. 

Then arguably saying hope doesn't snow in my zen garden etc. 

What is a zen garden? This Japanese approach to design can turn backyards into calming sanctuaries 

Thank you for the kind words. In touch with two people on here and one other person who were talk on Facebook (asked for my permission first); think I won't post here and only accept friend requests. 

If so, it is a dangerous move unless the mods can guarantee users' safety from possible predation, PTSD triggers and abuse.

This is supposed to be a safe place.

Being female does not feel safe here right now.

No discussions feel safe.

Some of us are minors.

Some of us are triggered.

Some of us are vulnerable.

There has crept in, of late, unfettered expressions of

misogyny and potentially predatory overtures, both overt and implied.

Not much Razzes me but if it persists I will have to leave.

I am not even going to lurk but will chat happily on PM only.

I'll check back next Saturday to see if it feels safe again.

Find me on PM please, for now. I am not closing my account. I am taking friend requests.

I love you all deeply,

I have spoken.

I've noticed that this is becoming a dating site. What do you think?

Also this user has just joined. They have no other history beside this post.

I just sent a message to the Ross-mod to have this removed.

Yeh I think you’re correct. Maybe some people on here are fakes who are trying to wind us up for a laugh. Quite sad really. 

it feels yes predatory. and no way to protect the more vulnerable among us. I am surprised to see it got through.

Yeh quite strange could this possibly be someone at the wind up?

This post feels wrong. Doesn't belong here. but on a dating site and makes me feel vulnerable.

ditto. It feels wrong. Doesn't belong here. but on a dating site and makes me feel vulnerable.

Feeling uncomfortable. 

Are you still looking?

I might copy your post bruv, is that okay. sure. Alright, no problem. You're welcome.