Do you guys know how to go abou this?
Background I am autistic and suspect very much my husband is too, as well I suspect our child is.
My husband comes from a family where his father has his issues and his Mother I suspect is autistic. There are some unhealthy ways his father is doing to his wife and family. I think his ways has done som damage to his son, my husband.
I feel like we have a good marriage for most part, but I notice my husband have this strange jealousy of me which surface when ever he under some sort of strain from his family and by that I mean ultimately his father.
The jealousy is so weird to me, and when he feels better it is as if it gets better or temporarily goes away. But it always returns.
Is there something I can do? He can do? It gets stronger in association with his father. As if he gets more alike his son then. Now we are approaching the holidays and I hope he does not get like that, but I dread it.
As he likes order and is a man of habits I do not know how hard it Will be for him to not do this in secret, checking up on me, etc.I think he does it to make him fel more safe in the end of the day.