Published on 12, July, 2020
Just interested if anyone else has met a person in adult life who bullied them at school.
My father ran a small coach business, the yard had an office and occasionally people would book a coach in person. One day I was on my own in the yard, I would have been about 35 then. One of the school bullies turned up to book a coach. He was one of the worst ones, anyway he greeted me like an old friend, it shocked me and I was like a rabbit in the headlights. He really was after ‘mates rates’, I really didn’t know how to deal with him, had he forgotten or thought it was just a bit of fun, I couldn’t work it out, I started to wonder, did the years of abuse actually happen? But they are too vivid, they did happen. Another thought was, he’s pushing me for a cheap price, is he trying to bully me again. I so wanted to ask him why he did it but couldn’t. My father luckily came back to the yard and dealt with his enquiry. Has anything similar happened to anyone else?
Think I just had a post deleted from here? Sorry if any rules were broken.
Oh Askimet strikes again I think.
Did you get an email from NAS as I did saying that the member 'Akismet' had reported the content?
It does.
Such people lie in wait and then leap out like a troll from under a bridge when they imagine you've said something with which they disagree. Then they run around reporting people to the mods and cause as much trouble as they can, over the most trivial stuff.
In between complaining about, well, everything and everyone really.
Best avoided.
I can't have reported any of your posts because I hadn't seen any in the last week because I have been on a working holiday, I've hardly seen anyone's posts and I have better things to do when I do get a moment to come on here than seek you out specifcally, and I do not have a crew. If you are going to be petty and make things up pls do it else where.
yeah all my posts are being reviewed by the mods and i am silenced too... but that was your doing, seems its only you and your crew that wants a world in which people you dont agree with are silenced and only your views are allowed lol
Many thanks, Number
Snap.
I posted the same information at the same moment as you.
Hi Shard......I tried to post a new discussion topic simply to inform all - but it disappeared after a few minutes. All it said was - Askimet is not a member here, but a form of anti-spam software that is used here on the NAS forum. I do wish the MODS would consider it appropriate to give us all a bit of an update.......although I should be be paranoid one in most groups, I think others here are becoming unnerved by this new flurry of "anti-something" that seems to have invaded this place since the new year.
Mine is back, copious typos and all
so I hope something may be done about it.
When I was required to communicate with the community manager about my "incident" I finished my email with this....
"I trust you will ultimately be able to explain what is going on - I have learned that other users have recently experienced this sort of procedure/process with some of their threads? A little reassurance from your good selves would be appreciated by all, I'm sure."
I only received a very dry response.
Thanks for doing that Debbie, it isn't a pleasant thought thinking someone would wilfully come on here just to cause trouble but I suppose it must happen from time to time.
I doubt it but then I'm probably being cynical.
Anyways, I've just emailed the Community Manager about this user, making it clear that several of us are having our posts targeted, so I hope something may be done about it.
Shardovan said:I'm finding it hard to care about much at the moment anyways, so it will be as it will be.
Sorry to hear this.
I hope things pick up for you soon. x
Could it be a bot of some kind? I know it can feel very targetted, and I' feel that way too. But maybe it's entirely random or key word based or something.
Well played
Certainly A kismet, our fate!
The mods do seem lovely, and appropriately light touch on most things. I have appealed and will see if my post reappears. I'm finding it hard to care about much at the moment anyways, so it will be as it will be.
TBH tho I have noticed the mods here are very kind people, perhaps a little too kind as that seems to make certain beligerant entities on this site believe when it comes to disrupting the community that they can continue to be repeat offenders without consequence.
I didn't notice a name, but it sounds like it was the same person if a spree has been occuring.
Was it 'Akismet'?
If it was, I think I may have to do a separate email on this as it's obviously targeted.
Ah this happened to me, I got a message very late last night saying to appeal the decision on a share your happy things thread and I did send the appeal in time but whether or not they will notice or not is another thing.Like I know I have some people on here who would rather I just shut up and be a doormat on certain things but of all my posts and threads that one in particular... just why?
Indeed. They belong on a 'bully' thread
In a strange way it feels like Askimet is on my former bully’s side. Silencing my words!