• RE: Managing the internal anger response to an external situation

    I can totally relate to everything you have said. I am going through something similar currently, except for me the trigger is dog barking.

    The sensation is horrible. The noise triggers an instantaneous anger response in me. Also anxiety mixed in I think…

  • RE: Welcoming new child and family to our school

    I would say, remember that behaviour that may seem naughty, should not necessarily be treated as naughty.  Obviously a child has to learn boundaries whether they are autistic or not, but there will usually be reasons the child is behaving the way they…

  • RE: Unbearable Anxiety about school run

    Thank you very very much for your replies.

    I do the school run by foot. We live only few minutes away from the school.

    It's hard to describe. I just panic. I have to go through the gate and drop my daughter off to the door of her classroom. There are…

  • RE: How to handle 14yr old daughter's school refusal and very low mood

    Hi again Karen,
    Never feel cheeky asking! It's what we're here for. Slight smile

    My partner is on the same sleep schedule, it's not at all uncommon in autism for precisely the reasons your daughter has given.
    He does need to break out of it sometimes though…

  • RE: Parent of an adult with autism

    It sounds a very difficult situation.

    The toll of masking in school and in the workplace can build up to intolerable levels for an autistic person. It is quite common for us to be able to hold it together in public and then explode into meltdowns once…

  • Parent of an adult with autism.

    My son is 25 now. Since the age of 8 he would not see professionals or have any discussions about his diagnosed condition or accept any support. We hoped that with age this would get easier. 

    He had friends at school and we encouraged all outdoor pursuits…

  • RE: Hello, my name is ...

    Asperger's and HFA (high functioning autism) are both autistic spectrum conditions.  They are a neurological difference that you are born with.  It is thought to be genetic although science does not yet know whether there are any environmental factors…

  • RE: Support for uni student

    This is the stuff I use and find useful:

    First thing is DSA

    DSA for me provided recording software and hardware for lectures, including some transcription software (my audio prosessing is rubbish)

    An app called brain in hand that has been very helpful…

  • RE: Autism or trauma.

    I can sympathise, sounds familiar. I wear sunglasses most of the time during the summer even in the winter i keep the lighting dim inside, i can't stand loud noise or harsh artificial lighting and wear earplugs if i have to go anywhere in public such…

  • confused about autism

    Not sure should I do this in the introduction forum or not, but oh well. For some time now i've felt I might be autistic. I do have neurodivergence as I have ADHD, but i'm not so sure any more that that's all it is. I still can't figure out what is the…