Share your hyperfixations with me :)

I thought it might be nice to share our hobbies and interests with each other- we may find something new to try out. Here is my list:

  • Learning foreign languages- I use Duolingo for this and am currently learning 3 different languages.
  • Infodiving on wikipedia. Also, have you heard of the Wiki game where you count how many clicks on embedded links in articles it takes to get from topic A to topic B?
  • Arts and crafts- this has always had a HUGE impact on my emotional and mental wellbeing ever since I was a kid. It doesn't matter what your technical ability is. Currently I am into drawing realistically but I have also enjoyed cross-stitching and animation in the past.
  • Video games- I have a huge backlog in my Steam and Switch library- admittedly I haven't even seen the launch screen on the majority of them but I am comforted by the fact that I will always have something new to play when the 'spark' strikes. My current favourites are Dead by Daylight, Fall Guys and Euro Truck Simulator 2 (and have been for months).
  • I have a special interest in all things science-y! It was one of my favourite subjects in school. I pick up New Scientist and Science Focus magazines to keep abreast of the latest information in the scientific community. I am aiming to achieve a Bachelors of Engineering in Aeronautics and Astronautics in the future and have plans to refresh my maths skills.
  • Social media- a bit of a double edged sword. I am aware there are some intolerant and/or ignorant people out there and that social media isn't everybody's cup of tea. Personally, I am not afraid to use the 'Block' button if I find someone's posts trigger me in a negative way. On a more positive note, I have found some very supportive mental health support Facebook groups and even an adult scouting group on the site where you can earn and buy fabric merit badges!
  • Building models with Lego- I have so many sets still to build and no room in the house to store them lmao.
  • Puzzles and brainteasers- these include those in the paper and physical format. I got a set of 5 rubix-style cubes for Christmas last year. I am still trying to solve the 2x2 without instructions (no spoilers please!).
  • Adult colouring- I have amassed quite the collection of adult colouring books: even an Iron Maiden album art colouring book duo.
  • Lastly, (I saved the best until last) is listening to music. I am a huge rock and metal fan but I'm trying to branch out and find other genres of music I may have missed out on. Any suggestions would be great- I enjoy up-beat tempos with lots of instrumental layers.
Parents
  • There are lots of Lego fans on the forum, it appears. Can anybody tell me why it appeals to many autists? Me, I would get flustered because I know I'd struggle to construct anything.

  • Simon, you don't know what you're missing out on. One of the first things I bought my son when he was old was Lego. Why? So that Mummy could play with it after he had gone to bed. Stuck out tongue winking eye

    I am inclined to think that you are possibly exaggerating and would be perfectly capable of constructing something. Granted, you might not be able to state what it is that you have constructed, just that you have constructed something.  Back in my Lego-playing days, I often had no idea what it was that I was constructing, although that may have more to do with the fact that there was never enough Lego or the right kind of Lego pieces for me to complete my construction. Wink

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  • Simon, you don't know what you're missing out on. One of the first things I bought my son when he was old was Lego. Why? So that Mummy could play with it after he had gone to bed. Stuck out tongue winking eye

    I am inclined to think that you are possibly exaggerating and would be perfectly capable of constructing something. Granted, you might not be able to state what it is that you have constructed, just that you have constructed something.  Back in my Lego-playing days, I often had no idea what it was that I was constructing, although that may have more to do with the fact that there was never enough Lego or the right kind of Lego pieces for me to complete my construction. Wink

Children
  • TVAM Showed the Sixties Batman episodes, around 1987-88. And Popeye; beforehand.

  • I remember that too! Around 1980 I think. There must have been a run of Saturday morning repeats, like how they'd show The Monkees or whatever

  • He's younger than that now, to misquote Dylan

  • I love that 'when he was old' 

  • I remembered the Rave Remix of the Banana Splits. Near the end of 1992.

  • The Banana Splits was broadcast in the UK from 1969 to 1971, but that surely cannot be right as that was before my time...

    Even *I* noticed this subtle dig at my age! I'll be over-writing more paragraphs to the high-priced lawyers I found asleep in a chip shop queue about this latest outrage! 

  • Thank you for making it clear that it wasn't the lawyers I had blown my nose on and thrown in the bin, because I think that is something even I would have found hard to forget. If you are able to engage in small talk about double glazing whilst also asking me if I remember The Banana Splits, then I am mightily impressed, and also rather alarmed. Regrettably, I have yet to master the ability to have two conversations simultaneously. 

    The Banana Splits was broadcast in the UK from 1969 to 1971, but that surely cannot be right as that was before my time... and yet I remember the Tra La La theme song and watching it. 

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XoIjhbzPtg

  • My lawyers wrote to you, sending cease and desist letters; you blew your nose in them and bunged them in the bin (the letters, not the lawyers). Unless you immediately halt this campaign against Lego atheists like me, I shall be forced to threaten you with more small talk about double glazing while asking if you remember The Banana Splits. Anyway, the Lego Witch Trials you organised outside the remains of my house were the last straw.

  • Whilst it's flattering to be told I "always" make you laugh (nice to know I have my uses), you can think again if you're expecting me to come to your rescue and rebuild your home... unless it's made of Lego.

  • Smiley

    You always make me laugh. In fact, my DIY house has just fallen down, due to the laughter.

  • If it makes you feel any better, I never progressed beyond buying basic Lego... Partly due to looking at the cost and refusing to pay what seemed like an eye-watering extortionate amount of money. 

    Apologies for adding to your distress and causing you to feel persecuted. Not making any promises, but I will TRY not to do it again. Am now going to sit on the naughty step and feel suitably ashamed.

  • Help! I'm being persecuted for being a Lego heretic!

  • Smiley

    I think I've got mixed up - I've taken almost zero interest in Lego since I was quite young. Nowadays, the only time I vaguely notice Lego - in adverts - the ads feature complex-looking models (a bit like that Falcon ship from Star Wars, or the Lego Titanic which Luna & Shardovan discussed on here). So I assumed that Lego is pretty much for near-experts these days. That type of thing is out of the question for me, seeing as I couldn't even finish making model aircraft when I was a kid.

    In any case, it's not really a matter of easiness or difficulty; my main problem is a disorganised mind.

  • OK, but I still reckon that even you would be able to place one Lego brick on top of another, even if you do consider yourself hopeless at the likes of DIY.

    Note to self: Abandon all plans for a future discussion with Simon about the contents of my DIY toolbag. Wink

  • 'One of the first things I bought my son when he was old was Lego. Why? So that Mummy could play with it after he had gone to bed.'

    Smiley

    'I am inclined to think that you are possibly exaggerating'

    I just haven't explained myself clearly, as usual. I should have written that it's my lack of practical ability (in everything from school woodwork/metalwork lessons to current-day home DIY stuff & so much more) that makes me nervous - when I mention, as I often do, that writing is my only ability, I literally mean it.