Published on 12, July, 2020
I was just talking to this lovely nurse and was explaining that going outside makes me anxious because of the people and unfamiliar surroundings and she asked me what I like most about my home and what makes it safe for me. And I thought that would be interesting to ask here as well, if you're comfortable to say of course :)
I like a lot of things about my home. All my favourite possessions are there. It's peaceful and I know I'm always comfortable and happy there. And probably the best thing is it's in the countryside.
Not a lot I know but they are big things for me.
We sometimes have a fire in the garden which is really lovely - but it’s my dream to one day have a house with an open fire, and to have those big old fashioned comfy arm chairs by the fire so that we can sit and read by the fire in the evenings. I always think it’s amazing that old houses even had fireplaces in the bedrooms - imagine how nice that would be - to drift off to sleep to the sound of the fire quietly crackling and the flicker of the flames. So peaceful.
Those salt lamps are lovely - they create a beautiful warm glow don’t they? I like using essential oils in a burner too - I like lavender, bergamot, orange and frankincense essential oils.
That’s a great quote :)
Home can be a little place of all the things precious to you. A place built purely for you and that represents your interests. A museum cabinet of memories, preferences and security.
For me my home is all of these things, but it also a place where I get to explore the art of efficiency. I have routines and rituals that I can complete in a certain way at home, that I can’t in other places, just for the very fact that I have designed my space around these requirements. It’s quite a wonderful, but also very unique, place as a result of this personalisation.
Me too their honking is so cute and their little waddle. I don't like visitos either I like my own privat safe place. It's where I'm happiest. Do you find that?
My neighbour has a real fire; I now head to hers to burn my confidential waste.
Well said. Your bungalow sounds lovely place to live. I only walk when it's quiet as well :)
Wow Kate that sounds absolutely amazing. You describe it so well your English and writing is super.
Distant sounds can be so soothing. I love the sound of a Curlew’s call. Any bird song is just wonderful. And the crackling sound of a real fire - I love that.
Love the idea of hearing the genteel sounds of cricket at a distance. The ripple of applause, willow on leather…
Jealous of your owls Kate! I should be grateful for the occasional robin though, which always feels special. I had a pheasant in my garden the other day for quite a while. A female one. Liked my overgrown grass I think
Same with the lighting. A soft up glow from my Himalayan salt lamp is enough for me most evenings. I must get some proper candles too. I just have tee lights for oil infusion purposes
When you find somewhere that just feels right it’s wonderful isn’t it? I’m glad you’ve found somewhere that you love :)
It is! I live in a big town but just near the cricket ground. I have lived here for just 2 years but hope I’m here forever!
That sounds lovely. The sound of cricket being played is strangely relaxing isn’t it?
I love Herons - they are so impressive. They remind me of Jurassic Park
Youre very lucky to have Kingfishers - I have only seen a Kingfisher 2 or 3 times, I’d love to see them more often. I have tawny owls living at the back of my house and I love them so much. I can even call them to come closer - but try not to do this too often as I feel guilty for disturbing them!
I love the sound of geese. And privacy is so precious. I’ve got to be honest - I absolutely hate any visitors coming to our house!
It’s so lovely to have that familiarity and control over your surroundings isn’t it? I find lighting very important too - I hate bright, cold lighting - I like to have warm, soft lighting - and candlelight. I’ve always wanted a real fire or wood burner - so that’s my dream to have that. One day hopefully!
I’ve often thought of getting an electric blanket too. Am I right though that you have to turn it off when you get into bed?