Any other Autistic adults in Northern Ireland?

I could send a friend request or three to facilitate that, supplying my own number, if that sounds ok?  And hopefully that mutual tentativeness (almost paradoxically) fosters a healthy trust, but if one or two  would rather wait for a few more to respond to the thread before trying a whatapp group that would be understandable. Of course, such a group could always grow incrementally over months anyway, and is likely to remain relatively small - which probably makes it less daunting overall? 

As long as we are happy to share numbers I think it'd be good idea Shardovan and Zoe a lot of interesting discussions on this forum so We'd have that as well

I’m not very tech savvy so beyond WhatsApp wouldn’t know what to suggest but I think it would be a secure enough feeling safe space. The only other private platform I’m in a smallish group on is a Discord server (Doctor Who fans), but someone with a bit of know-how got that up and running and I was just a grateful recipient of an invite. I think with WhatsApp, someone has to be a nominal administrator but it doesn’t require any sustained effort in that regard. Once it’s there it’s an equal footing for everyone in it. With no pressure for specific regularity or frequency of posting. Just finds it’s own pace. 

that sounds good, i couldn't have picked a better word than tentatively myself.  We can all take an oath not to call each other. as i said to Zoe   I've no idea if what's app is the best for us to try this out , if you've any other suggestions?

that's great Zoe, and if there's one thing, I don't like its talking on the phone.  I've no idea if what's app is the best for us to try this out any other suggestions welcome. 

I’d be happy to tentatively try that too, nobody would have to worry about calls I rarely inflict my awful voice on anyone unless it’s unavoidable! No offence taken if you’d prefer a more selectively chosen group, im just trying to be open to things when nice people are kind enough to extend the general invitation. 

I like the idea of a WhatsApp group. It would be much easier to follow and get to know each other. I’m happy to share my number as long as it's only used for WhatsApp and not unexpected phone calls. I hate speaking on the phone. 

That’s a nice idea. Yes, as much as I appreciate this place, finding the hidden ‘ten minutes ago’ or whatever is quite the search sometimes. 

Most of my life is housework, too, but I still require a cleaner - every Wednesday morning - to keep the place shining.

I wish I was a natural with animals, like my Mum. Whenever I was younger, I was like Lenny from 'Of Mice and Men'.

Maybe in time a few of us could start new thread or what's app or something? Replies are easy missed alright. Mist have been lovely working with horses, though hard work! You're rabbit and goldfish sound cute. Small talk is overated  

Yay

The site wasn’t working for me yesterday either. It must have crashed. I hope they improve the way the site is laid out because it’s not easy to follow a thread and replies are easily missed. 

I haven’t been employed for years but I used to work with horses. That’s all I’ve ever done really. I loved it but dealing with all the people wasn’t so easy for me. I’m dreadful at smalltalk face to face. I’m at home most of the time doing housework. I have a pet rabbit and a goldfish to keep me company. 

Ghosts of Christmas Present then 

Hi zoe, I didn't spot your reply at first, and yesterday the site wasn't working for me. I do hypnotherapy so the psychology fits nicely. Lifelong interest so it's good to get formal training too. What about you? Are you in a job you love/ training/or...?

think there's to be another Christmas special this year  

So that's what you meant about them all knowing each other for years. I think you can tell, from the few tiny bits I've seen of it.

Hypnotherapy is good. I used it to quit smoking 5yrs ago. Is psychology the area you want to work in or are you studying it for interest only? 

No, you’re not the only one. The notifications seem to be random. It definitely doesn’t work properly. Most of the replies I’ve only become aware of by reading through the entire thread again. 

I love horrible histories. Both the tv show and the books. I’ve set my box to record Ghosts but I think there’s only two episodes left so I’ve missed most of them. Maybe they’ll repeat it sometime. Another Christmas special would be nice too  

Hi Zoe yes thats the one  horrible histories os a great show too. Hope you liked it? Ps I I the only one who doesn't get post or reply  notifications? 

Count me in for your Christmas.