Published on 12, July, 2020
An informal thread for all misfired and miswired women on the spectrum...,(and guests). A new thread as we can chat away but are not so good tidying up after ourselves....too busy being awesome..,,
This is a new iteration of many long and warm and welcoming contributions. This is a happy and supportive place x
Hi I have been diagnosed with mental health problems most of my life and have a son with HF ASD. The more I read about ASD, the more I think that I may have traits. Can anyone enlighten me on the main differences between male/female indicators. Me and my son have a fantastic relationship, he is clever, witty and caring which some people don’t think fit in with the stereotype. Maybe I don’t fit in with the stereotype either - but have not really ever identified with any specific group. The say the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree :)
Hello 35521!
i found this very help as a reference and identified with it a lot.
https://taniaannmarshall.wordpress.com/2013/03/26/moving-towards-a-female-profile-the-unique-characteristics-abilities-and-talents-of-asperwomen-adult-women-with-asperger-syndrome/
Tania Marshall is produced a very good checklist...
funny story....I was sat at work with it and a highlighter pen and a work colleague said.. “ I don’t know what you’re reading but you are only meant to use a highlighter to select key points...not all of the text”..... nuff said!
anyhow...I hope it helps x
Hi
thank you for you thoughtful and prompt reply. It’s a really good read and have downloaded a sample of her book to try. It is really making me think.
Great stuff - my 15 yr old ASD son helped an elderly lady over the road today. I feel very proud! Anyone who says people with asd don’t have empathy are wrong. He was very touched when the lady called him John which I guess could have been her son’s name.
.....he’s just jealous! As NT he can’t be as brilliant as us weirdos!
That’s a politer version than my husband who called me a “crazy woman”! Lol....and I was paraphrasing!
Haha my fella says it about me. It’s a local saying for ‘not quite normal’.
Live the name by the way! .....Loosely Wrapped but not quite enough protection to be bubble wrapped ;) x