I feel like I'm the only one!! Life is hard, I get stressed, I have severe anxiety and many phobias, as well as a degree of OCD. But I'm not depressed and my mood is mostly stable. I have had meltdowns (we just called them tantrums back in the day), but they blew over and I recovered quickly. I just follow my routine and interests and keep on an even keel. I don't work, which probably helps, and am single. I was diagnosed before my sense of difference really hit me, and I was late to develop awareness, or really care about being different.
I receive a lot of support, which helps.
I'm ASD and also Bipolar 2, but wouldn't say I get a lot of depression, either. Like you, my mood is stable enough too. I probably have enough to be depressed about though - I cannot work, due to artritis and I live alone: I see my kids pretty infrequenty, as they live abroad. I can get pretty low, but I can sense it coming and have developed a skill set to dodge it. I'm also ADHD, which is inconvenient (to say the least) but does stop me sinking into depression, as I seem to have a lot of energy. You say you don't work, which helps. Do you mean you have enough time to follow your routines and manage yourself? And your single....Does that mean you don't have to manage a relationship? I can understand that, as relationships are the greatest causes of stress to me. However, I don't think you should think you're the only one. Look around this place and see how many like minded people there are. You'll see there are many individuals you can identify with. Choose whatever works for you, realise you're not the only one, and your anxiety should decrease a bit
I'm learning that within the support group that I attend, several fellow attendees are diagnosed autistic and something else. I may be in a slight minority in that I am diagnosed Aspergers and do not appear to have any other significant diagnosable condition, though I am fairly anxious on a day to day basis.
The one time I had clinical depression my GP offered my anti-depressants, explaining that these could be used as a tool to help me come out of the depression, and once back on a more even keel, there would be no further use for them. I declined these based on an experience with sleeping tablets, which I took once and left me feeling very woolly in the head: I really disliked being 'numbed' by the sleeping tablets and being left with a lack of lucidity.
I suffer from severe depression in and off.
I've had plenty of medication for other conditions. But I've never taken anything for depression. I often suffer unwanted side effects and if these are worse than the original problem then what's the point?
I also don't trust doctors.
I've been offered anti depressants. Anti psychotics, sleeping tablets.
I've had suicide attempts with tablets (paracetamol). So is it sensible or safe to offer me sleeping tablets.
I've been falsely threatened with prosecution for claiming free prescriptions. That did wonders for my depression!!! If the prescription had been for anti depressants that would have made the irony complete.
I suffered from depression for many years - up until I got my diagnosis. That showed me what the root of it was. I was depressed because I couldn't 'fit in' and had other problems, and didn't at the time understand why. The diagnosis gave me that understanding. Since then, my mental health has improved. Pre-diagnosis, I took SSRIs on and off for years - but they just made me feel doped. They're not really formulated for autistic neurology, though. I take no meds at all now. I have thought about investigating something for my ADD, though.
To anyone reading this thread,
If you are ever going though a tough time and feel unable to cope with distress or despair, it’s very important to tell someone about your feelings or thoughts of suicide. Call your GP and make an urgent appointment. Your GP can make sure you get appropriate help and support.
If it’s outside your GP hours call 111 to reach the NHS 111 service: http://www.nhs.uk/NHSEngland/AboutNHSservices/Emergencyandurgentcareservices/Pages/NHS-111.aspx
The Samaritans also provide confidential non-judgemental emotional support, 24 hours a day on 116 123, or by email on firstname.lastname@example.org.
MIND have information pages on coping with self harm or suicidal feelings based on the experiences of people who’ve been through it that you may find helpful.
If you are very close to doing something to hurt yourself - call 999 now or go to your nearest A&E department. There should be someone there to support you and make sure you get ongoing support.
If you need help with an autism related issue, our helpline can be emailed on email@example.com or they’re open Monday to Thursday 10am-4pm and Friday 9am-3pm on 0808 800 4104.