Published on 12, July, 2020
Not even sure where to start with this one....
Found out today hes been squirting his 5 year old sister with disinfectant spray when she comes out of the toilet. Really don't know what to say or what to do.
She said to us today "X squirted bleach on me because I wasn't clean". Having an antibac spray is one of his things - he likes to spray the toilet to ensure its clean. But if hes going to misuse it then, might stress him a lot, but surely we've got to take it away from him?
Obviously, apart from the possible harmful effect of spraying this on her (after all its not meant to go on people), its the fact that he now projects a lot onto others. Hes like a typical teenager - filthy dirty as is his bedroom etc but he seems to focus on others in the family. Hes done a lot of things to the detriment of others in the family recently.
I dread to think of what will happen if she goes to school and tells one of her teachers. The social will be around in a flash!
Hes been seeing CAMHS for over a year. Complete waste of time they are. Also he pretty much refuses to engage and I dont think has made ANY effort at all to help himself or even try anything the CAMHS people have suggested.
At wits end now. Any suggestions?
I make my own with hydrogen peroxide and essential oils: tea tree oil, lavender and eucalyptus. You could dilute the essential oils in water, tbh. Then so long as he doesn't get them in her eyes, he can do it all day without there being risk of of too many toxic chemicals. I always try to go with the eccentricities and simply ensure the elements being engaged with are healthy.