25.9.17 A place for hefelumps & skinny beans to chat or reflect from poetry to humour to beneath the roots

Morning (just!) all!

at work but the computers have crashed so twiddling my thumbs.  Found out I passed my exam yesterday which is good.

Well done re your exam pass

And you on your recent graduation! penrose! My first degree was in English x

Hi missy yes the voyage of sorts was a really good one! A true voyage of discovery,

I have learnt to accept praise,ok mostly for doing a good job, no better feeling than our office receiving a letter from a customer saying what a wonderful person he is,and his work is not only excellent he takes the time and trouble to explain what he is doing, on top of which they specified I was to receive a bonus, now I took that praise and believe I deserved it, it made me feel appreciated.

So when I see you or Ellie reaching out to help others and trying to help them I think that deserves praise or a compliment. I cannot see one person who wouldn't agree with that.

  At work I only praise those that join in and work with me, if I say nothing they do actually know I am not impressed, I hear about it so imagine they appreciate my kind words,most of the men I work with are self centred typical males, some are prejudice some are chauvinist some or just thick.I do know that the majority enjoy working with me, See I accept that as praise.it keeps me going in an environment I don't belong? 

Sorry rant over,I am fatigued,happy one minute,confused the next,sad unsure.head needs damping down.

none of that rubbish was intended to upset,just me blundering around trying to empty the mental luggage.

sorry for spoiling the happy place.

nite nite,sleep well,Missy I did read about your day but didn't reply as you ladies were having a good time.An awful lot going on for you,take care my dear.

Hi missy yes the voyage of sorts was a really good one! A true voyage of discovery,

I have learnt to accept praise,ok mostly for doing a good job, no better feeling than our office receiving a letter from a customer saying what a wonderful person he is,and his work is not only excellent he takes the time and trouble to explain what he is doing, on top of which they specified I was to receive a bonus, now I took that praise and believe I deserved it, it made me feel appreciated.

So when I see you or Ellie reaching out to help others and trying to help them I think that deserves praise or a compliment. I cannot see one person who wouldn't agree with that.

  At work I only praise those that join in and work with me, if I say nothing they do actually know I am not impressed, I hear about it so imagine they appreciate my kind words,most of the men I work with are self centred typical males, some are prejudice some are chauvinist some or just thick.I do know that the majority enjoy working with me, See I accept that as praise.it keeps me going in an environment I don't belong? 

Sorry rant over,I am fatigued,happy one minute,confused the next,sad unsure.head needs damping down.

none of that rubbish was intended to upset,just me blundering around trying to empty the mental luggage.

sorry for spoiling the happy place.

nite nite,sleep well,Missy I did read about your day but didn't reply as you ladies were having a good time.An awful lot going on for you,take care my dear.