Published on 12, July, 2020
I’ll be honest, one of the reasons I feel like I can’t properly immerse myself in this forum is down to how public it is. Along with the fact i have never felt comfortable in a group of people, and essentially that’s just what this place is. Years ago yahoo chat and msn worked for me, the general asl gave you a clue who you might click with, and more often than not you’d start a private chat. Eventually you’d click with someone (or a few people) and form an online friendship. I miss that!
So I’m putting myself out there, if anyone feels similar, message me. I don’t bite, we might not click, we might well click, who knows.
And this pretty much is why this place doesn’t help me in the slightest. Ignored in the real world, ignored online. Excellent!
Yes I understand what your saying there. I do write some posts but also feel dread if I write anything what if I get ignored...don't want to add to rejection pain.
But I don't do great with conversations so think just adding comments to threads like this is the most I can manage. That does make me feel part of a group and I find it feels good.
Thankyou
That’s good that it works for you on some level :)