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You’re married - that seems like a pretty significant human connection to me (speaking as someone who has absolutely no one and very much wish I did)

I didn't mean to offend anyone. I have deleted this post and my profile. I'm so sorry. 

I dont think theres any reason to delete your profile. I dont think anyone was offended, just brought up the fact that TECHNICALLY you have human connection. You may just need less human connection and thats fine.

If you feel very bad about an action you've taken try this:

Instead of running from it. counteract it with a new improved action.

We are all evolving and to linger over past failures is to deny ourselves

the chance to improve with new and more thoughtful actions.

Dear DeletedUser,

Like the rest of us.....you struggle.....and you express yourself clearly and resonantly to me.  I hear you.

Feeling hopeless and demoralised is part of our reality.....but that is no reason to delete your profile here - in fact, it is quite the opposite!

The things that we struggle with, feel hopeless and demoralised about, varies - both in topic and intensity......but WE ALL HERE,   S  H  A  R  E   that challenge in the round.

I am supremely confident that Amerantin will not wish you to leave, based on your interpretation of what he was saying to you.  I think you have misunderstood the intent and feeling behind his response.

Anyway - I won't bang-on at you about this.  Your decision friend......but rest assured of two things, that I know to be a certainty = neither myself nor FH think that you need to feel bad about what you wrote, and nor to we think that the response is a good reason to leave.

We are here.  That has to be worth something when you are feeling as low as you are at the moment.  I HAVE BEEN THERE.  This place is better than that.

A bloke who cares.

Kind regards

Number.

I feel hopeless and can't stop shaking. I shouldn't have posted

I feel hopeless and can't stop shaking. I shouldn't have posted

If you feel very bad about an action you've taken try this:

Instead of running from it. counteract it with a new improved action.

We are all evolving and to linger over past failures is to deny ourselves

the chance to improve with new and more thoughtful actions.