Feeling blessed

Walking around my house tonight, looking for something, I realised how hot it was. It was ridiculous but it reminded me of how lucky I am, to be living in a lovely warm house. 

Some people will live their whole lives and never spend a night in a warm, safe and loving home. 

I don’t focus my attention on such situations, but I do honour those people, everyone of them, every time I become aware of how blessed I am and every time I give unfailing gratitude for all that I have. 

All that I have, I share with them, and everybody else. Because if I don’t, I am simply depriving myself of the fullness of love, the fullness of  the expression of love and when I do that, we all lose out, but only, 100% of the time. Nobody benefits from the absence of love and everybody gains from the expression of it. 

Unconditional love is the power but it’s a loving power, the clue is in the name, we don’t have to be afraid of it, but most people are scared of it and choose to live instead, in fear. 

Scared to love but happy to hate! Scared to forgive but happy to condemn. Scared to forgive, lest the person do it again, while all the time people are reliving the incident in their minds, keeping it alive, as if it were happening over and over again, when all along, the other person has long since changed their ways, or maybe they haven’t, but you certainly are still living it. For the sake of not forgiving, without realising, forgiveness is for us. It sets us free, not the other person, although it does free them as well, on a deeper level. 

I don’t know. I fail to find a stress free reason to hold anything but love in my heart, for all living beings, for all the earth and for all the animals and the universe at large Shrug tone1‍♀️ I guess I’m weird. But I can’t find a single reason to not love all people. I have tried. But I have failed to find one. 

Parents
  • I don't quite get this " I fail to find a stress free reason to hold nothing but love in my heart" so does that mean it is stressful for you to hold love in your heart??

  • No, it’s means that if I don’t feel love, I feel stress. It is stressfull for me to think bad thoughts about somebody, I don’t feel at peace, I only feel at peace if I feel love for people. I know what you mean though, if feels like a weird play on words or something but it means that to feel anything other than love, is stressful, so if I feel love, I feel at peace and I don’t feel any stress. If that makes sense? 

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  • No, it’s means that if I don’t feel love, I feel stress. It is stressfull for me to think bad thoughts about somebody, I don’t feel at peace, I only feel at peace if I feel love for people. I know what you mean though, if feels like a weird play on words or something but it means that to feel anything other than love, is stressful, so if I feel love, I feel at peace and I don’t feel any stress. If that makes sense? 

Children
  • That’s the way the law works. It’s not personal. That which we give our dominant attention, without resistance, is what we get back. Do a radical worksheet to find out where it’s coming from. What have you got to loose? A few hours of your time. But what have you got to gain? You won’t kniw until you try. 

  • £300,000 loss now increased to £2m and disability with spinal injury and blindness increasing. I  know the cause, but can't believe it all seems to get worse

  • ... and they will continue to do so until you go within and find the cause and by seeing the cause, you dissolve it and there ends the  consequences. 

  • the problem is the consequences of what has happened which seems to get worse every day

  • All events can be overcome and there are many great teachers etc helping people to do this, but you have to first of all believe that it’s a possibility. And if you feel the desire to recover from it, you are at that point, sowing the seed of recovery, and if you remain open to it happening, things, people or situations will come into your life to present you with opportunities etc to make it a reality. 

    But for any kind of forgiveness, I don’t think anybody can go wrong by engaging in the radical forgiveness process. It’s free to do. The worksheet, information and instructions etc can all be found, free of charge, on the radical forgiveness website. You can do it in the comfort of your own home. All you need is a few hours where you won’t be disturbed, and to simply follow the instructions. 

  • I get it now, 

    But events that only occur once with severe consequences are impossible to recover from I find