Published on 12, July, 2020
This a thread for a people who are still awake at night and feeling lonely. You can chat here.
I finally got sleepy at around 12:30, woke at 5:30am, 5 hours is a very good night for me. I woke after horrible nightmares, so I both lack sleep and I'm afraid to go back to sleep because I fear a return of the nightmares. Help!
I'm sorry to read you are experiencing nightmares.
So the other day a similar thing happens to me, I awaken from a nightmare in a terrible sweat adn psychologically upset and it's so unpleasant that nothing else will do but a nice bath.
Reset my my head and get nice and clean I think.
I pull back the curtain and it turns out that SOMEONE has crapped in the bath!
The below NHS article includes 3 strategies for managing dreams and nightmares.
https://www.lscft.nhs.uk/our-services/service-finder-z/lancashireandsouthcumbria-traumatic-stress-service/information-leaflets/managing-disturbing-dreams-and-nightmares
I used to to get a repeat nightmare (one where you realised it was a nightmare during experiencing the episode). Before going to bed I used to remind myself the nightmare might happen, I knew it was a nightmare,and I could decide to wake up rather than experience it again. I gave myself a physical cue to enact within my repeat experience of the nightmare "my eyes are open because I have awoken". After a while I was able to recognise the nightmare, decide to open my eyes within the nightmare and wake up from it. It might sound unlikely - yet it worked for me. After sometime; I ceased experiencing those repeat nightmares (appreciative of that outcome).