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Deleted user
over 1 year ago

Hi everyone,

I stupidly acted on a negative impulse yesterday but have been in touch with Nas and decided to join again which they're fine with but I'll only post in short amounts until I'm feeling better again. I really hate myself sometimes but I'm going to try hard to get better.

This has been my first time here but I just took really naturally to the forum. 

I feel like I belong here it's a lovely feeling.

I loved your photo of the goslings 

They are so cute :) 

Thanks everyone for being so nice I hope I can make it up to you.

Goosey x

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  • over 1 year ago

    I hope you feel better with time. I worried that it was my post which scared you off!

    Although it's absolutely fine if it did. I know that post was quite intense.

    I'm glad you feel you belong here.

  • over 1 year ago in reply to HMO

    Honestly it wasn't you so please don't think it was.

    I've had issues for a while and sometimes I feel so bad and get thoughts it's hard not to act on them but I'm better again now.

    I'm still trying to catch up with everyone but I'm going slower now.

    Feeling really happy to be here again :) 

  • over 1 year ago in reply to Deleted user

    I'm glad! Your conversation really helped me that day, especially as the amount of people to talk to at the moment is incredibly sparse for me.

    Definitely take things at the right pace for you. I know the feeling of things feeling particularly bad, it has been mostly every day for me for the past 3 months. 

  • over 1 year ago in reply to Deleted user

    I do appreciate your support. If you're okay for me to send you a private message to continue the correspondence I'd be happy to.

    I'm hoping when I resume therapy I'd be able to process some of the worst feelings.

  • over 1 year ago in reply to HMO

    It's easy to focus on regrets and the bad days but important to look forward and remind yourself that you still have a lot of good days to come.

    There will always be regrets and mistakes and like said before it's good to learn from them but don't let them rule your life or it will ruin your life.
    I can see how much you want things to change for the better and they can believe me they can.
    You can turn your life around but make sure you forgive yourself and give yourself time and the self care you need.
    One thing doesn't define you. I know some people say it does but that's wrong. What defines you is how you react after things happen and I see someone who wants things to change and better themselves.
    That says a lot about you and it's all good things not bad.
    I'm here for you and will support you through this :) 
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  • over 1 year ago in reply to HMO

    It's easy to focus on regrets and the bad days but important to look forward and remind yourself that you still have a lot of good days to come.

    There will always be regrets and mistakes and like said before it's good to learn from them but don't let them rule your life or it will ruin your life.
    I can see how much you want things to change for the better and they can believe me they can.
    You can turn your life around but make sure you forgive yourself and give yourself time and the self care you need.
    One thing doesn't define you. I know some people say it does but that's wrong. What defines you is how you react after things happen and I see someone who wants things to change and better themselves.
    That says a lot about you and it's all good things not bad.
    I'm here for you and will support you through this :) 
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  • over 1 year ago in reply to Deleted user

    I do appreciate your support. If you're okay for me to send you a private message to continue the correspondence I'd be happy to.

    I'm hoping when I resume therapy I'd be able to process some of the worst feelings.