Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi guys,
I'm new here, just joined today and thought I'd come take a look on the forums as I am feeling a bit wired tonight. I feel drained but hyper/on edge all at once. My whole life I have always felt different and think I have probably been depressed for most of it whilst going through the motions until it all came to ahead a year ago. I eventually went to the GP who diagnosed depression and put me on Citalopram which I have been taking the past year. I've improved a little but not enough to allow me able to cope at work or at home yet so he referred me to a psychiatrist, sensing that I'm a "troubled soul".
I had my initial assessment with the mental health team in April sometime I think it was and broke down at several points talking about my childhood through til now, my thoughts, feelings and how my whole life has been. It was very draining. At the end of the session she asked if I knew why my GP had referred me. I said I wasn't sure other than to get my medication looked at and she told me it was because he suspects I have ASD and that she would have to agree with him based on some things I said about my childhood, although she admitted her knowledge was limited. She asked me to do the AQ10 question which I did. I think I scored 6 or 7 out of 10 which meant that she was able to offer me an appointment with the local adult autism service for a full assessment. So that is where I have been today and a bit of background about me.
It was a bit of a shock and I didn't know what ASD was. However, since doing some research on this website, receiving inforation from the autism service and reading some books I feel like I am reading about my life. It is comforting yet upsetting all at the same time. I was with the adult autism service for over 4 hours today and I go back in a few days to see the clinical psychologist. They tell me they will let me know the diagnosis then. I feel sick with nerves and worried. So here I am.....I hope I've not rambled on too much. I'm a 35 year old female, supposedly in full time employment but I just can't cope and need some answers and some help. Hopefully this is it. I've been told over the last two and a half years things like OCD, anxiety, depression, but nothing hits the nail on the head like ASD so keep your fingers crossed for me that everything is going to turn out okay. I can't afford for this to carry on otherwise I am going to end up losing my job!
R x
Hi,
Im Mum to a 13 year old F2M transgender boy and a 14 year old girl. My son is going to be privately assessed for ASD in 2 weeks - at his own request. I have always believed that he may have ASD. He is very depressed and is not going to school.He has self harmed. He sees a councellor who is fantastic and helps him untangle his feelings and thoughts about his body, gender and school. His sister also sees a councellor and has a lot of anxiety herself. She is very angry with all of us and feels that everything is focussed on her brothers needs. She may well be right!
My husband and myself are struggling to cope with everything at the moment - the school are on our backs for none attendence, the gender clinic are not listening too well to my son ( he is desperate for hormone blockers) and my daughter is blaming her brother for everything. We are at our wits end. I am praying that my son gets an ASD diagnosis and that it helps him feel better about himself - am I awful to wish for that? Has anyone else experienced their child being too anxious and overwhelmed to go to school?
Please help - any suggestions or experiences gratefully received - good or bad.
Thank you x