Hello new member here.

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Hi all,

I've recently attended an assessment as I've long suspected I'm an aspie but not had an official diagnosis, until now. It was confimed I have ASD and I'll receive a written confirmation in due course, as will my GP.

I'm 52, male and married with 2 kids who are grown up.

I've had life long trouble with maintaining relationships and sometimes been disciplined at work (not my current job) for making inappropriate comments. I was once fired for taking extended sick leave for anxiety and depression.

My wife is a saint. She has stuck by my these 30 years through thick and thin and has stood by me when lesser women would have run for the hills.

Anyway, that's me.

Paul

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  • Hello Paul,

    Welcome.  I was diagnosed last year, at age 56.  I've had very similar lifelong problems to yours: inability to make friends, sustain relationships, anxiety and depression, etc.  I, too, lost a job because of extended sick leave.

    I was married once, but it fell apart as I find cohabiting difficult.  That was 12 years ago.  I recently tried cohabiting in a relationship again, but that didn't last either.  I prefer to be alone.  I don't have any kids.

    See you around!

    Tom

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  • Hello Paul,

    Welcome.  I was diagnosed last year, at age 56.  I've had very similar lifelong problems to yours: inability to make friends, sustain relationships, anxiety and depression, etc.  I, too, lost a job because of extended sick leave.

    I was married once, but it fell apart as I find cohabiting difficult.  That was 12 years ago.  I recently tried cohabiting in a relationship again, but that didn't last either.  I prefer to be alone.  I don't have any kids.

    See you around!

    Tom

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