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Just saying hello

christophelambypie
over 8 years ago

Hi there people,

I'm new to all this, so please go easy on me, cheers.

So now thats out of the way, im finding myself stuck for something to say...

I'll tell you what!, I'm just gonna come out with a little about me and what it can be like in my everyday life, then please feel free to let me know what you think.

Okay, I'm the right side of forty and two years ago I went for diagnosis for either aspergers or high functioning autism{depending on your preference}, due to having had a life which has been distressing to say the least. Little clues through out my life have led me down this path, being uncomfortable with crowds, struggling to follow group dicussions and humour, not being comfortable with change and awkwardness with eye contact are to name but a few. Anyhow since then I have tried to follow the advice i was given and slowly but surely am making changes in my life that "seem to fit" with me, and life is improving, so all is good.

I was once asked by a friend if i could describe what its like, so he could try better to understand and i came out with this analogy.

To me living with aspergers is like, living in a goldfish bowl!.

I can see the world around me and hear everything that goes on, but somehow I can't seem to interact or feel a part of the world, like everyone else on the outside can. Its not that i have no part in the world or no usefullness, its just that there always seems to be a invisable barrier between myself and everone else..

Does anyone agree with that?, i would like to know if anyone feels the same way.

Cheers for reading

Parents
  • over 8 years ago

    Thanks for the welcome,

    My dad used to say I wasnt seeing the wood for the trees!! If only he knew.. lol

    Depression and social anxiety are the main reasons that i started to figure it out, ive had a lifetime of it, and its lead me down many many unhealthy avenues. The best advice I could give would be "never give up", I know that my battles are far from over, but now I know I have the ability to work out the trigger points and identify better ways foreward, rather than just plain ignoring it or over compensating and getting emotional {which in my case is always over the top}.

    I know its hard with depression, but try to stay positive, keep working things out and making little adjustments and soon enough it get easier.

    i like to think that the great thing about my ASD is that I have a unique mind that works in a unique way and not only does it make me unique, but it makes me uniquely me.

    Chin up and kindest regards

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  • over 8 years ago

    Thanks for the welcome,

    My dad used to say I wasnt seeing the wood for the trees!! If only he knew.. lol

    Depression and social anxiety are the main reasons that i started to figure it out, ive had a lifetime of it, and its lead me down many many unhealthy avenues. The best advice I could give would be "never give up", I know that my battles are far from over, but now I know I have the ability to work out the trigger points and identify better ways foreward, rather than just plain ignoring it or over compensating and getting emotional {which in my case is always over the top}.

    I know its hard with depression, but try to stay positive, keep working things out and making little adjustments and soon enough it get easier.

    i like to think that the great thing about my ASD is that I have a unique mind that works in a unique way and not only does it make me unique, but it makes me uniquely me.

    Chin up and kindest regards

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