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Normalish
over 9 years ago

Um, hi. Since I've very recently been diagnosed, I thought I'd turn to a place like this to see if I can start trying to make sense of what it all means...

By which I mean, I'm fine... I'm OK... And it's true that having this label now I'm 27 doesn't change who I am, or who I have been up to this point, but... I dunno... Now my struggles have been validated, and I feel the relief of an explanation, I'm keen to try and understand how it can change things going forward. Y'know?

Anyway, I've rambled, sorry. And I'm also sorry for my choice of username, in case it offends anyone. I'm fascinated by the whole idea of "normal" and how fluid the concept really is. Describing myself as "normalish" is just my own way of poking fun at it. There is no such thing as normal, but I do find it helps others understand things when you put it into their language, so...

I think I'll shut up now, and have a look around - thankyou!

P.S Can you tell I like ellipses...?  

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  • over 9 years ago
    Hi guys - thanks for your replies! Stonechat: Thankyou for your wise words on self-knowledge. I sincerely hope to learn more about it and myself, but I worry it will equally become a burden. Already I find myself hyper-aware of the label, and the pressure of knowing about it has somehow exacerbated some traits I'd previously have coped with better (social anxiety etc.) It's a very surreal position I find myself in, at the moment! Sgt Romeo: Hi! What an interesting tale you have to tell, wow! You've obviously done incredibly well to have made the career you have, in spite of the difficulties you experience, probably as a result of a condition like this! It's pretty reassuring to hear you can still make it, and people are understanding of it. Work is an interesting one... There are very few ways I feel they could make any adjustments for me, as it is, in many ways, simply an ill-suiting job! It's a relief, now, though, to have a reason for why I hate it so intensely and why I often feel it wears me out but that I can never explain that to others! I think I'm considering my options of employment at the minute, and mostly intend to make future employers aware of my condition, definitely! Good luck with your diagnosis, and I'll more than likely take you up on that offer of chatting! And last but not least, soldersplash: Hi...! You're so right! Ellipses ARE underrated! They deserve more... Um... More... Respect! More respect in our society! :D Thanks again guys, and I hope you're well! :D
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  • over 9 years ago
    Hi guys - thanks for your replies! Stonechat: Thankyou for your wise words on self-knowledge. I sincerely hope to learn more about it and myself, but I worry it will equally become a burden. Already I find myself hyper-aware of the label, and the pressure of knowing about it has somehow exacerbated some traits I'd previously have coped with better (social anxiety etc.) It's a very surreal position I find myself in, at the moment! Sgt Romeo: Hi! What an interesting tale you have to tell, wow! You've obviously done incredibly well to have made the career you have, in spite of the difficulties you experience, probably as a result of a condition like this! It's pretty reassuring to hear you can still make it, and people are understanding of it. Work is an interesting one... There are very few ways I feel they could make any adjustments for me, as it is, in many ways, simply an ill-suiting job! It's a relief, now, though, to have a reason for why I hate it so intensely and why I often feel it wears me out but that I can never explain that to others! I think I'm considering my options of employment at the minute, and mostly intend to make future employers aware of my condition, definitely! Good luck with your diagnosis, and I'll more than likely take you up on that offer of chatting! And last but not least, soldersplash: Hi...! You're so right! Ellipses ARE underrated! They deserve more... Um... More... Respect! More respect in our society! :D Thanks again guys, and I hope you're well! :D
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