Published on 12, July, 2020
Hello everyone I am looking for advice I have been raising my grandson since he was born he carries my last name as well, his mother has been in and out of his life but now she is with someone that my grandson claims hit him and hit his mother. She claims is not true but my grandson says he is not nice. I worked really hard for my grandson to be were he is at today. Routine is everything with him she wants to take him for 2 weeks but I am worried! His mother said it didn't happen I know my grandson enough to know he is telling the truth he doesn't speak full sentences but was very clear to say and demonstrate that man hit him. Please any Advice will kindly appreciate it.
If you are your grandson's legal guardian and your daughter is not, then the decision is yours. Obviously, taking a child heavily reliant on routines somewhere other than his usual home is going to be disruptive and potentially might have long-term adverse effects, so making an argument against this trip or holiday to your daughter, from that point of view, may be useful. Ask if your daughter is more motivated by her own desires, than by the best interests of her son.