Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi I'm Holly Jane and I have autism. I was diagnosed in my mid-teens and ever since it feels like I've been trying to make sense of it all. I do feel like maybe I should have processed all this by now as it's been several years but it seems to be a long journey. I'm sure I'll get there, eventually. I was part of a local autistic group but it's closed down now so I'm hoping I'll find friendship and understanding here as I did with the group.
Holly Jane said:I do feel like maybe I should have processed all this by now as it's been several years but it seems to be a long journey.
Welcome to the community Holly.
Don't worry about processing it all in a matter of a few years - it can take a lifetime to deal with some stuff as it keeps evolving as we do. The key is trying to enjoy the good bits.
I found the best option is to prioritise the stuff that is getting in the way or that you really want to do and focus on that - the rest will get dealt with when the time comes.