My son

Hi everyone,I have a 13 year old son who only recently in the last two years that he may possibly have autisim he has to cut labels out of clothes because the feel of them he can't have any plastic wrappings around his drinks bottles he flaps when he's excited has no friends and calls himself a freak :( jes really lonely and sits on his xbox all the time I cry alot wishing my son could get some support and have friends he's such a kind caring boy he's really really sensitive and can't control his emotions well he's not been diagnosed with autism a connors form got sent but I'm convinced he has autisim how can I get help for my son thankyou