Following the tide...then not. Not knowing what to think.

Hi, 

I am new to this. So hello. 

I am finding this very hard to explain so forgive me if it doesn't make sense!

Sometimes do you go along with the theme of a conversation I.e. someone is saying that someone else isn't pulling their weight etc and you agree and so join the rhetoric.

Then over a period of time the other person seems to have changed their mind - and then you feel like you are caught out and you don't know what to think because what they are now saying also seems to hold true. 

I feel like I don't know who I am or how to hold my own opinions. Anyone else found it more difficult as you jave go older and had children? Looking back I found life a lot easier when I was younger and in my twenties. I feel more autistic than ever recently. 

Sorry that has been such a ramble post!