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Nuisance neighbour

Danni MAUM
over 1 year ago

My Autistic son  and I moved home 8 months ago and the old guy next door won’t accept the fact that my son’s stimming is not something I can stop, not even for my neighbour’s comfort, which appears to rule! 
How do I speak to the housing agency who would like me to be sympathetic to my neighbour’s wife, who apparently has a heart condition. 
It enrages me that an older man would like my son to cease to be disabled for HIS comfort! 
I have handed them literature that explains stimming and that it is an involuntary reaction, but they want yet another meeting! 
I’m at my wits’ end!

The guy hammers ar my door but I refuse to engage with him, I’ve explained all he needs to know, but he is still demanding I put an end to what amounts as a healthy expression  of my son’s joy!

do you have any advice I can use before this Wednesday meeting?

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  • over 1 year ago

    I find it very difficult to imagine what kind of stim could possibly have any sort of affect on a neighbour...I know a few of mine alarmed my husband when I was in distress, but the neighbours would never know and it would present no harm to them if they did. What is he doing exactly that could in anyway bother anyone?

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  • over 1 year ago

    I find it very difficult to imagine what kind of stim could possibly have any sort of affect on a neighbour...I know a few of mine alarmed my husband when I was in distress, but the neighbours would never know and it would present no harm to them if they did. What is he doing exactly that could in anyway bother anyone?

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