Introduction

Hello, 

I'm new to this community and just recently joined NAS as a member after thinking about doing so for the last few months. 

I am a woman in my late 20s and was diagnosed with autism in my early 20s. I was only referred for a diagnosis after I had developed an eating disorder, anorexia, which greatly impacted my ability to work and live normally.

During childhood I had been referred to many counsellors and therapist's because of a delay in development, selective mutism and my difficulties in making or maintaining friendships. I believe the lack of help in childhood did lead into the 5/6 years I struggled with an ED. It has only been very recently that I managed to get into work and lead a somewhat regular life, though I find myself struggling again (I currently work as a carer/support worker but I feel like that was an awful decision so I've had to quit and look for work elsewhere).

Finding work that suits me has been a challenge and I'm still looking. With the current increase in cost of living it has left me feeling really stressed. I am sure I am not the only person who feels this way.

I hope to gather advice and hopefully provide some advice whilst in this community. From what I have seen there are many discussions on topics that affect me, so I am glad that there is advice and guidance put there.

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  • Hi Amedeo,

    I've not long ago found and joined this community, so don't suppose i'm in a position to give any decent advice, but hope to find it, it helps to be able to chat.

    Have you got anyone at home, who do you live with ? You talk about the difficulty making friends,  but how are things with your family ? It's funny you should mention some of your problems going back to childhood. I found someting on the internet about CEN (chilhood emotional neglect). I'd necer heard of it, but so many of the things this woman was saying seemed ro make me see things in my life as a grew up. I'm still reading up on it. Is it an American fad by someone trying to sell a book ?..... I'm not sure. But i'm sure lots of my autism traits go back to childhood.

    Hope being helps you, and answers the questions spinning around inside your head.

    Bill.