Published on 12, July, 2020
HI there All
I am married to an amazing woman who I love dearly and she has ASD. We have 2 children, a fantastic home, great life and everything on the surface seems to be rosey but unfortunately despite our best efforts we are not making each other happy. In fact we are at the point where we both have doubts that we even want to continue our relationship.
Our marriage is at a point now where we both see that we need to get help to manage our differences to stand any chance of moving our family forward together.
What I am looking for is a recommendation of a Mediation Service that would be able to help us navigate forward but that has an understanding of ASD, a mediator with no experience or understanding of ASD would not be able to give us the support that we need and my wife deserves.
I am desperate for us to find the help we need as I think that we're both still hoping that we can be together, not only for the happiness of our 2 young children but more importantly for ourselves...any recommendations will be gratefully received.
Always nice to see a fellow ASD who is married but as far as mediation goes I've tried it myself but strugel to take it seriously. I guess music is my mediation. Usually I listen to heavy metal but if I want to calm down I'll listen too instrumental like Lude wing or motzat focus on the tempo and melody rather than something with lyrics. Lo-fi hip-hop is pretty southing too but have to skip the songs with white noise as white noise does my nut in.