Hello!

Hey all,

I just joined the community and wanted to say hi.

I have just been diagnosed with autism (at age 46), and I feel like a child again.

Meaning I now wonder what is going to happen next.

My diagnoses has helped me and my family understand a lot of my past, but I'm still coming to terms I actually have autism.

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  • Hello Rob, and welcome,

    What happens next? Well, in my case it was a gradual acceptance. Many things from my past started to make sense as ancient angst resolved itself and I began to better understand myself; I now feel a lot calmer inside than I have ever done. Sticking a label on my condition was the best thing that could have happened - and I had to wait until I was in my mid-sixties to get that label.

    The only advice I would give you is to hold back on disclosing the diagnosis, it's not really anybody's business but yours and your family's. Read up on the condition, read this forum, watch utube videos and learn; then think about disclosing - all in your own time.

    I hope you get some 'lightbulb' moments, if you haven't already had them.

    Best of luck,

    Ben

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  • Hello Rob, and welcome,

    What happens next? Well, in my case it was a gradual acceptance. Many things from my past started to make sense as ancient angst resolved itself and I began to better understand myself; I now feel a lot calmer inside than I have ever done. Sticking a label on my condition was the best thing that could have happened - and I had to wait until I was in my mid-sixties to get that label.

    The only advice I would give you is to hold back on disclosing the diagnosis, it's not really anybody's business but yours and your family's. Read up on the condition, read this forum, watch utube videos and learn; then think about disclosing - all in your own time.

    I hope you get some 'lightbulb' moments, if you haven't already had them.

    Best of luck,

    Ben

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