Newly diagnosed with ASD Aspergers profile this morning

Hi,

this is my first post on here. I Had the ADOS and psychiatric assessment this morning and was told that I have ASD/Aspergers, which I have suspected for a while.

part of me is frustrated that I wasn’t diagnosed as a child (I’m 37 now) and that I missed all the early intervention stuff.

part of me is relieved as it explains so much of how my life has been and the difficulties I have had. I guess now I know for definite what the issue is I can try to manage symptoms. I’ve been working through a social skills book the last few months which has helped so much. I really wish that I’d had that book 30 years ago, a step by step guide to social interaction, it would’ve saved me a lot of rejection.

mainly I’m feeling numb and not sure how I should feel.

Anyone else freshly diagnosed or awaiting diagnosis out there?

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  • I have just been diagnosed as ASC. At the assessment they mentioned having an aspergers profile but that they don't diagnose that any more. I felt similar to you, I was relieved and happy, then bitter at not being diagnosed as a child and then just didn't really know what I felt or what to feel.

    I'm interested that the social skills booklet helped you. I've never had much faith in stuff like that.

  • Hi Binary, no, i believe that they don't diagnose Aspergers anymore. What the psychiatrist said was that she believes I am Autistic (which i think they use as an umbrella term now) but I went for the test to find out if I had Aspergers. I don't have Classic Autism as I don't have the developmental delays in language etc and I don't meet the diagnostic criteria. I assume that when I get the full report in the post in a couple of weeks it will say Aspergers profile.

    Just a small topic diversion. I understand the reason for getting rid of the term Aspergers (being associated with the Nazi's and all that) but I fear that it will become a little bit like when the pop star Prince changed his name to that squiggle that nobody could pronounce, he just became known as 'the popstar formally known as prince'. Aspergers will become known as 'the autism spectrum condition formally known as Aspergers'. Unless they think of a new name for it of course.

    I've been reading and working through 'Improve your social skills' by Daniel Wendler and it is AMAZING! Basically he's an American guy with Aspergers, but he wasn't diagnosed until his teens. He then studied social skills intensely for years and now writes books to help others learn social skills and does online social skills coaching too. The way he writes is really logical and easy to make sense of, his book covers everything from conversation; body language; making friends; eye contact; empathy; etc. Honestly, I'm only 3 chapters in but a few months ago before starting his book I had 3 long term friends that I'd maybe see two or three times a year, and I always felt I was being annoying (most likely droning on and on about myself) and used to get negative feedback a lot. Now I have a few more friends that I meet with regularly and I'm actually getting positive feedback for the conversations I have or the support I give other people. The hardest part at first was my own social anxiety, difficult to be confident after a lifetime of rejection. But, as I build more relationships and get more positive feedback from people my social anxiety is lessening a lot.

    Have you been able to find any resources or people to support or help you?

  • That's weird, I did have language delay but they told me it was nothing to do with ASD but to do with hyperlexia. Go figure! Then they told me aspergers is no longer a diagnosis, then they gave me an aspergers diagnosis. Whatevs! I'm on the spectrum somewhere Smiley

  • Hi extraneous,

    I’m pretty sure that language delay does have something to do with ASD and nothing to do with hyperlexia. I’m also hyperlexic and had no language delay. I think the confusion over whether or not Aspergers is still a diagnosis is confusing the professionals! It’s certainly confusing me! I found this link which kind of clarified it a bit: 

    https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.spectrumnews.org/news/new-global-diagnostic-manual-mirrors-u-s-autism-criteria/amp

    Basically the Uk will be abolishing the diagnosis of Aspergers and switching to an all encompassing diagnosis of Autism Spectrum disorder. I think we’re still in an in between stage at the moment with some clinicians using the updated ICD-11 diagnosis of ASD and some still using the older ICD-10 diagnosis of Aspergers/Autism/pervasive developmental disorder. Personally I got diagnosed according to ICD-10 criteria and although my assessor or assessment report didn’t specify Aspergers, the report said ‘autism spectrum disorder F84.5 according to the ICD-10’ F84.5 is Aspergers in the ICD-10. To be honest the new criteria in the ICD-11 are very vague and in my opinion they’ll be a lot more people that meet the criteria for ASD that wouldn’t have done so previously. They’ll also be people on the more severe end of the spectrum that aren’t getting a diagnosis that fully takes into account their needs. We’ll all just be ‘on the spectrum somewhere’  Like I said, just my opinion, have a look and see what you think? 

    How are you feeling about your diagnosis?

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  • Hi extraneous,

    I’m pretty sure that language delay does have something to do with ASD and nothing to do with hyperlexia. I’m also hyperlexic and had no language delay. I think the confusion over whether or not Aspergers is still a diagnosis is confusing the professionals! It’s certainly confusing me! I found this link which kind of clarified it a bit: 

    https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.spectrumnews.org/news/new-global-diagnostic-manual-mirrors-u-s-autism-criteria/amp

    Basically the Uk will be abolishing the diagnosis of Aspergers and switching to an all encompassing diagnosis of Autism Spectrum disorder. I think we’re still in an in between stage at the moment with some clinicians using the updated ICD-11 diagnosis of ASD and some still using the older ICD-10 diagnosis of Aspergers/Autism/pervasive developmental disorder. Personally I got diagnosed according to ICD-10 criteria and although my assessor or assessment report didn’t specify Aspergers, the report said ‘autism spectrum disorder F84.5 according to the ICD-10’ F84.5 is Aspergers in the ICD-10. To be honest the new criteria in the ICD-11 are very vague and in my opinion they’ll be a lot more people that meet the criteria for ASD that wouldn’t have done so previously. They’ll also be people on the more severe end of the spectrum that aren’t getting a diagnosis that fully takes into account their needs. We’ll all just be ‘on the spectrum somewhere’  Like I said, just my opinion, have a look and see what you think? 

    How are you feeling about your diagnosis?

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