Published on 12, July, 2020
I set up an appointment in a few weeks to talk to someone about an autism assessment.
I'm 48, F and in the USA.
I am second guessing the appointment. I dont want to spend 1000+$ if im not likely to fit ASD.
How many people actually are ADS that figure that out themselves?
My husband said something twice in a week about me being autistic, he is a counselor and routinely sees clients with ASD. So, i googled it and feel there is a fair chance i do fit the asd traits. He could be wrong though. We didnt discuss it further.
IdI like to know. But then maybe I wouldn't.
Is there something that i can do to or know that will help me decide if an assessment is the right step?
Thanks
Lisa
Thanks for the article. I'll have a look at it. I've always never fit in, figure i just thought differently, neurotic, and maybe a bit of social anxiety. But it seems that now that i aam aware of the specific traits, things to look for, it feels overwhelmingly apparent that i im likely some degree of ASD.
Im in the middle of my work day. So ill catch up again in a bit.
I scored 12/80 on the EQ.
Hi again Lisa,
Forgot to say I've wondered for the last 20 years if I might be autistic. The motivation for getting assessed now is that I've become acutely aware of the huge effort I have to make to do things which NT people do reasonably effortlessly.
I've been masking my autistic self for a very long time now and it's getting harder as I age. I'm glad my mask is slipping because I'm finally rediscovering my authentic self.
I probably don't even need a formal diagnosis. Just being part of this online community makes me feel I have come home at last.
Some people have autistic traits which don't have a negative impact on their lives. If I had been in that category I would probably not have pursued a formal diagnosis.
It's an exhausting and expensive process!
With best wishes
Rose
Hi Lisa
I'm 58 F and in the UK and I've just started the autism assessment process.
Here's a link to a resource about how autism presents in women which I found helpful:
https://taniaannmarshall.wordpress.com/2013/03/26/moving-towards-a-female-profile-the-unique-characteristics-abilities-and-talents-of-asperwomen-adult-women-with-asperger-syndrome/
I'm not sure what the USA assessment process is - it varies quite a bit here in the UK.
My assessment is going to be made up of the following components:
Depending on how things go I have been told extra components may be added (e.g. speech and language or cognitive assessment).
It all seems very thorough.
Thanks! I've done the AQ and scored 50 if i remember correctly, >32.
I'll look at the EQ.
You could try the AQ and EQ tests for adults which are available here:
https://www.autismresearchcentre.com/arc_tests
Both myself and my partner were pretty sure before our assessments that we were.