It's a miracle I got in

........and probably will hardly manage to again, as I may have forgotten my password ready. After a zillion things going wrong.....including the fact that all my brilliant ideas for a handle were already taken. Great minds. 

I have not been diagnosed and won't be, I don't live in the UK and no doubt more ties to my lovely home country will be cut still further in the next year. 

It was just seen as craziness when I was a kid, in the 1960's. It could be a spectrum thing but it could be something else. The red flags for the A word for me are that I regressed at 18 months and no longer spoke using grammatically correct sentences. Tantrums and obsessions during childhood, being scapegoated at high school and repeatedly being criticised from student years onwards for not engaging in enough eye contact. 

But it is on the other side of the boot too as I teach at a high school for children who wish to specialise in the arts, and many are now getting diagnoses of dyspraxia, dyslexia as well as the odd autism I do feel the need to know how to work with these kids. 

I would love to hear from older people who are only now recognising the hidden thing after all these years. Or from other teachers also confronting similar things.

The most important thing is my art incidentally.

Parents Reply
  • Meditation does help. Unfinished animal is an understatement. There's no end to the changes in behaviour that our species inflicts upon itself, lol!

    You have a Bengal? Cool af! Even if she is a cross she's bound to be big! Lol, yeah they do look wild, like mini ocelots!

Children
  • She is beautiful and has a look of genuine wildness about her. The neighbours can tell she is a mix of some kind. One mum kept observing her, calling her a lounge leopard. She also thought she looked very Bengal. My other cat is very pretty too, she is a tortoiseshell and tabby mix. She has nothing if my other's restless temperament though.