It's a miracle I got in

........and probably will hardly manage to again, as I may have forgotten my password ready. After a zillion things going wrong.....including the fact that all my brilliant ideas for a handle were already taken. Great minds. 

I have not been diagnosed and won't be, I don't live in the UK and no doubt more ties to my lovely home country will be cut still further in the next year. 

It was just seen as craziness when I was a kid, in the 1960's. It could be a spectrum thing but it could be something else. The red flags for the A word for me are that I regressed at 18 months and no longer spoke using grammatically correct sentences. Tantrums and obsessions during childhood, being scapegoated at high school and repeatedly being criticised from student years onwards for not engaging in enough eye contact. 

But it is on the other side of the boot too as I teach at a high school for children who wish to specialise in the arts, and many are now getting diagnoses of dyspraxia, dyslexia as well as the odd autism I do feel the need to know how to work with these kids. 

I would love to hear from older people who are only now recognising the hidden thing after all these years. Or from other teachers also confronting similar things.

The most important thing is my art incidentally.

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  • Mine has never moved in to a new house, she just visits! She has managed to dart into everyone's flat along my corridor at least once. I have to lock the front door by key as she can let herself out otherwise. She got out once without my knowing and I found her on the 9th floor. 

    Apparently Bengals also have a similar lack of regard for territory so I have to advocate for her Bengalistic tendencies although I don't call it that. The house rules stipulate 'no exotics' even if she is only maybe just a cross. Some neighbours are fond of her but one  was outraged to find this large, wild looking beast strolling and sniffing around her flat with total impunity.

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