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cant go out in the daytime plse help :(

justice2201
over 11 years ago

hey my nme is justice,  i'v known i'v had autisem  for years  but never had  visual sensativoty  to light and noise  untill the past  couple years,   i cant  go out   i cant see the people  i want to or  go out  and hang  out like i want to .  i'm a prisner in my own home,    i can barly  walk  my dog enough,  i  got  perscription  sunglasses  and i even use an MP3 player   but its not  enough    i'm all out of idea's   plse help :(

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  • over 11 years ago

    well for light its mostly bright light,   sunlight,  and LED's  re particulerly   bad  to,
    and as  for noise   its mostly   high pitch noises (sirens,   alarms,screaming ect)   and  also large colections of smaller noise,  (a room of people talking,   lots of cars bikes  or  busses,)      at  first it was ok i kinda liked  the down time     toi  not go out  and be lazy  for a little while,    but thats  was  for  like the first month  or so... its nerly  3 years  now  and  no end  to my sensativoty  is in sight   on  top of that   its  a real problem   for my  family AND my GF    the longer   this goes on  the more of a problem  its getting   its just  getting  worse and worse,    now whenever  my GF  mentions   something like "i'm bored,   going out would have been nice"    brings me to tears   more and more each time   its  killing me to my  very  core   i know    she dosnt mean it in  spitefull way  cos  she is more lovingg  and caring  then  anyone i know  appart from my own mum,    i know its me getting more and more sensative to the issue  at this rate i dont know how long i can keep up  a fake smile ?

    and i have looked into   glasses  with a spacialist tint but i fear  that might not be enough still  :/ 

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  • over 11 years ago

    well for light its mostly bright light,   sunlight,  and LED's  re particulerly   bad  to,
    and as  for noise   its mostly   high pitch noises (sirens,   alarms,screaming ect)   and  also large colections of smaller noise,  (a room of people talking,   lots of cars bikes  or  busses,)      at  first it was ok i kinda liked  the down time     toi  not go out  and be lazy  for a little while,    but thats  was  for  like the first month  or so... its nerly  3 years  now  and  no end  to my sensativoty  is in sight   on  top of that   its  a real problem   for my  family AND my GF    the longer   this goes on  the more of a problem  its getting   its just  getting  worse and worse,    now whenever  my GF  mentions   something like "i'm bored,   going out would have been nice"    brings me to tears   more and more each time   its  killing me to my  very  core   i know    she dosnt mean it in  spitefull way  cos  she is more lovingg  and caring  then  anyone i know  appart from my own mum,    i know its me getting more and more sensative to the issue  at this rate i dont know how long i can keep up  a fake smile ?

    and i have looked into   glasses  with a spacialist tint but i fear  that might not be enough still  :/ 

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