"NeuroDiversity"... means Psychopaths and Sociopaths, too, now.Just in case anyone here might not know.Just in case I am not believed, here are links. (But also just type "NeuroDiversity +Psychopath and/or +Sociopath into your Search Engine to bring up lots of results.)These do also admit that "ND" was a term originally coined by Autistics... but since then, the Psychopaths have adopted it, too.
Autistics worry and care... Socio/Psycho-paths do not. That is supposed to be the difference.
...I am Autistic, and I have to live with a person of one of those other types stated, there (My so-called 'Brother'). This is the reason why I post less of late... and I may eventually have to leave this Forum completely.
Now you all know.
Erm... my mess
Take one narcissist, which lends itself to coercive and controlling behaviour. From research, they don’t necessarily seek weak people..but at times people they admire, people who fill the gaps of what they’re not, .... then the fun comes in pulling them down...
Btw... he ain’t finished with me yet....
.... imagine feeding a parasite... it’s appetite is never met. I need a tic bird
I try not to think of it as my autism is the problem, I rationalise it as they are arseholes.
I really don't see the point of milling it over in my head. If it's uncalled for, it's not me who needs to rationalise it.
Don't give people the power over you that makes you reflect on your actions after it is an event where the other person is clearly in the wrong. They are still having an effect on you. Don't give them power.
I understand how people feel. I had my fair share of bad situations. We can't blame ourselves. I want you and anyone reading this to stop dragging yourselves down. You aren't the problem.
Windscale said:IDK, it just seems like somehow we broadcast a signal that gets picked up on and we're taken advantage of etc. :-(
I try to avoid that way of thinking. Some people don't need a signal to pick up on, that's just how they live. There are people who will buy something from a shop, or call a call centre with the intention of being as much of a *** as possible. NT's have to deal with it too, it's not like they are immune to dickheads.
I'm fine with people who want to pick a fair fight/argument/dispute/debate, but when it turns into underhanded cowardly stuff, that's when it really bothers me. Picking on people weaker, ganging up, covert tactics, and people who are the aggressor, but when it doesn't go their way they play victim.
We will be OK. Let's be easy on ourselves too. There are enough battles to fight, so laying into ourselves on top of it is sort of doing the arseholes work for them.
There are good people all over this world, it's peppered with *** too, unfortunately.
Hope you all end up OK.
Hi cloudy did you receive a request from me, I couldn’t PM you so added my words to a friend request, thank you .
Just added you LW. I couldn't read the message. For some reason you can only see the first few words on a request on tablet. Thanks for adding me!
I know you know a lot of this stuff already, and I don't want to alarm you, but this article has lots of sensible suggestions about keeping yourself safe when you break up with a narcissist;
Take care Ellie ()
Thank you Sunflower. It’s a really good article and well expressed.
Bail was meant to run out this morning, but has been extended until March. I am also seeking an injunction..so that will be the first court date I’ll be dealing with.
look after yourself
Greetings, all. I keep thinking about this Thread, rightly, since I myself began it...!
It is a real bother, to Post when I can do, rather than when I want to. Also, I cannot recall all of the Threads I reply to... certainly I am not alone in this. This is a general reply -again...
I posted the links which I posted in the OP because they validated what I said, about SocioPsychoPaths thinking themselves akin to Autistic People... also, the content in them seemed to be similar to what HE (my so-called Brother) likes to say: "Let's get together! We are all the same! I don't care who you are!"... sort of thing. Very sad and very bad.
The second reason I began this Thread was to draw attention to the fact that people like that - who do NOT care - see themselves as the same as persons who DO care. But "Society" seems to treat those who do NOT care with more respect: They threaten, bully, harm, lie, cheat, steal, etc... and so - as long as the law is not broken - Society seems to reward that, as if Society is afraid of them...?
Apart from that, the better Websites which I paid attention to seem to have changed... Websites upon "How to deal with a Socio/psycho-path", that is. Here is a link to one of them, where the text is similar, but the previous links which I had (not posted here) have since disappeared!
...If there are better sites with advice then please post links here. But the advice I read is to mainly Avoid such people...
(I had more to say, and may say more at another time, but I have to sign off, now.) Good Fortune to All. :-)