34 and struggling following breakup

Hi, I have recently had my now ex partner break up with me. He told me to leave our rented house and hated the fact I relied on him so much financially. I do have some part time money coming in but he couldn't accept my struggles with work. I am now back with my parents and at 34 having severe panics not only from his abrupt leaving, but also my lack of independence. I'm really struggling and want to know I'm ok and it's not as bad as I think. I'd like to think there's someone out there for me who understands and isn't going to judge me for still living with my parents at this age. Ive never been able to hold down a full time job and just don't ever see it getting better :(

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  • No need to think, just believe. There's somebody out there, who will understand you. Believe me. Now, I would never judge a person for such superficial reasons. It's possible, you need to find somebody Neurodivergent. Me, I have the same exact problem, I'm 35 and much like Rodney Dangerfield, "I get no respect." People round here, don't even now who that is even. I'm from England, where the only acceptable interests are football and drinking, naming players in a team that played in the premiere league a few decades ago, that's normal, but  any reference to American things, like obscure pop cultural or underground. is...just..wait, what, am i infodumping? anyway, where was I , oh yeah, The whole dating stuff. Yeah like I said, I'm in the same predicament. I look like Liam Gallagher, But I have no social skills, I have ADHD, aspergers, so Life just decided to screw me.

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  • No need to think, just believe. There's somebody out there, who will understand you. Believe me. Now, I would never judge a person for such superficial reasons. It's possible, you need to find somebody Neurodivergent. Me, I have the same exact problem, I'm 35 and much like Rodney Dangerfield, "I get no respect." People round here, don't even now who that is even. I'm from England, where the only acceptable interests are football and drinking, naming players in a team that played in the premiere league a few decades ago, that's normal, but  any reference to American things, like obscure pop cultural or underground. is...just..wait, what, am i infodumping? anyway, where was I , oh yeah, The whole dating stuff. Yeah like I said, I'm in the same predicament. I look like Liam Gallagher, But I have no social skills, I have ADHD, aspergers, so Life just decided to screw me.

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