34 and struggling following breakup

Hi, I have recently had my now ex partner break up with me. He told me to leave our rented house and hated the fact I relied on him so much financially. I do have some part time money coming in but he couldn't accept my struggles with work. I am now back with my parents and at 34 having severe panics not only from his abrupt leaving, but also my lack of independence. I'm really struggling and want to know I'm ok and it's not as bad as I think. I'd like to think there's someone out there for me who understands and isn't going to judge me for still living with my parents at this age. Ive never been able to hold down a full time job and just don't ever see it getting better :(

Parents
  • Hi do not feel down.Firstly I would say does it matter if you are single.Surely if you end up in a and relationship that is worse than being single.Find some things you enjoy and do not push it.

    I myself hate the idea of a relationship and due to being mentally battered when I have tried to have one I happy stay single with my sister and cats.

    I enjoy the company of the opposite sex and think women are wonderful just cannot live with one !

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  • Hi do not feel down.Firstly I would say does it matter if you are single.Surely if you end up in a and relationship that is worse than being single.Find some things you enjoy and do not push it.

    I myself hate the idea of a relationship and due to being mentally battered when I have tried to have one I happy stay single with my sister and cats.

    I enjoy the company of the opposite sex and think women are wonderful just cannot live with one !

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