Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi really want to talk about this and get other people’s opinions really. I genuinely believe that everyone is bisexual I am I know that but I see myself as a hetro romantic. I will admit that I find women attractive and think I would like a bit of that but when it comes down to dating I date men I can’t see myself getting together with a woman. I also know this person who swears that he is gay I knew straight away he wasn’t it was a cover up. I caught him once sending women flirty messages on his phone but I never called him up on it as it’s his business and not mine. As a woman on the spectrum I don’t know really I’m just curious as to what everyone else thinks. Like I said I find women sexual attractive but I would date a man rather than a woman. Please feel free to share your opinions on this topic. I mean no offence to this post I’m just curious really is it just me that thinks this or does anyone else.
I can't see how this could be true. Closeted men being homophobic is a thing, but it doesn't mean every heterosexual man is secretly gay.
I have no attraction whatsoever to the same sex, in fact the thought of it and images/videos of it repulse me and disgust me (not intentional or hateful, it's just the automatic reaction I have always had). That's pretty common from what I understand. There was a study done where men's disgust response to seeing two men kissing was found to be the same as seeing maggots.
I can still tell if a man is attractive of course, but have no desire to ever do anything with them sexually. The ability to tell attractiveness must be universal and unrelated to sex, whereas motivation to do sexual things is probably very strongly selected towards something that would result in offspring, but it is a spectrum (gay and bisexual people exist and some people might be in-between). We also know that your sexuality can be modified by childhood experiences, so the change in environment in the last decade will probably lead to a lot more fluid sexuality in the future.