Published on 12, July, 2020
Hello, I have been with my partner for almost 10 years now and he has always struggled in work. He has mainly worked in factories and has been let go and recently worked in a kennels was was told he was not a good face for customers. After all these incidents it has destroyed his confidence and he does not want to work with people again which I can understand. He is waiting for a diagnosis of autism but has been told the waiting list is 2 years. He is receiving help from employment support agencies but they only ever help him with his CV or tell him to apply for jobs on Indeed which he has been doing for months now.
He is having more frequently meltdowns in which he'll throw a cup against the wall or start hitting himself continously or bang his head against the table. I find it so distressing and tell him to stop but he doesn't, so I'll ring mindline and he'll calm when he talks to someone.
My question is, what should I do when he is having a meltdown? Leave him to have some space or try to calm him down?
Also, if anyone has any advice on finding remote work (data entry, customer service, typing) it would be really appreciated.
Really appreciate this, it helps a lot to hear from someone who has been in a similar boat x