Published on 12, July, 2020
Hiya all so in May I got a party that honestly I'm semi panicking over
So my friend invited me to her birthday party and I will know no one else there besides her and I believe she told some of the others whom will be there about me. so i fear they have developed a image of me that I won't be able to live up to
We met through "work" it hard to explain without sharing too much personal information
My asd traits also means I struggle with large crowds occasionally and I have awful social skills and a massive want to live up to people expectations of me
You got me listening to Party Fears Two by the Associates:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KybfTKNl2NM
I went to parties out of obligation when I was young and only have dreadful memories of them, so I can't offer reassurance.
When I reached a point where I felt I could, I said no.
Are you able to say no, even retrospectively?
Saying no is hard but it's something we need to do where we can (without causing a relationship rift).
Great song Debbie.
Debbie said:ou got me listening to Party Fears Two by the Associates
Debbie said:Are you able to say no, even retrospectively?
It one of those things where I wanna say no but I also want to go because of my feelings and fact she a good friend and I have a feeling ill finally be able to meet the people I hear her moan about a fair bit. I also hear about the good people too
That came into my mind as well!