Don’t Know If This Has Been Discussed- Autism & Getting Blamed For Other’s Actions

One of the things that I have noticed a lot is that whatever a person does that is wrong or inconveniences me, it’s somehow my fault for the other person’s actions. For example, I have being dealing with someone who is indecisive about things he wants and he works me up and I motivate myself to want to do things with him and then he backs out and if I get upset because his decision affects me and he doesn’t want to compromise so we both get what we want, I am somehow the problem and everything is my fault, even though I know deep down this person will just change their mind again and go right back to wanting to do whatever we have discussed. It’s like “How’s that my fault?” I don’t know if anyone has had any similar experiences like this as an Autistic person but it definitely is something that I have noticed a lot.